26 faves · 58 comments · Feb 12, 2013 7:11pm
abigaail
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1 decade ago
Is his sweetness worth all of his "jokes"...?
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supergreenmissqueen
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1 decade ago
girrrrl i would ignore him and make him apologies your skinny and umm if he asks you whats wrong say "how would you feel if someone calls you fat? to you it mught be a joke but to me its personal" thenn walk away OR just tell him im angry with you and say what i just wrote
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potato300
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1 decade ago
5'8 and 111 pounds, your skinny!!! Your not fat at all!
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Bananabrains316
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1 decade ago
5'8 and 111 seems pretty damn skinny to me!
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RachelLoves143
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1 decade ago
Wow 5 ft 8 and 111 pounds? imma go with he was joking. Because that is veerryy thin and the fact that its so obvious that you aren't fat, he was probably just joking.
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valerieexrainbowss
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1 decade ago
That's what I was thinking. But on another note, I feel like this guy's kind of a jerk. Take a step back and think for a second. Why exactly are you friends with this kid? What about him makes him so great to be around that you really care this much about your "friendship"? I don't mean to sound harsh here, it's just that... ugh, that last paragraph. He's doing those things and he's not dating you and here you are telling us Witty people that it's "playing with [your] emotions." Hello!!! He should know better than to do that. You just... don't do that. You don't. Once you realize you've crossed the friendly/flirty line with a girl you have no intentions of dating, you're supposed to stop. Either he hasn't realized what he's doing, or he has and doesn't care. Is he like this with anyone else? Maybe he's just generally flirtatious (and maybe even a bit player-ish). Does he know that this bothers you? Eh, personally, I don't like it. If you're okay with it then that's fine - but it really sounds like you're not. And personally, I don't like the way he's treating you, at all. I just don't.
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slipper012
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1 decade ago
So something similar happened to me about 2 years ago. The difference is it was my best friend calling me fat and rather than using the word fat she told me I looked pregnant (i had told her this was one of my insecurities) and then she got others to agree with her. I'm 5'3" and weigh around 125 and am quite curvy even though I wear a size 0. My advice is to go straight up to him and say something like "So you called me fat the other day and that really hurt so would you please either apologize or not talk to me because I don't want to be friends with people who try to bring me down." or something along those lines. I hope that helps!!
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caitiecatforever
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1 decade ago
I'm gonna go with.... he was joking. A lot of guys don't realise just how sensitive girls are about body image, weight, etc. so to him, it was probably a harmless joke, he may not even have had any idea what he said that offended you, hence the no apology. Especially if you really aren't fat at all.
But, as for all the cute things he does for you.... he might just see you as a really good friend. It's happened to me before. You think they like you because of all the stuff they do but really they just care about you - there's a difference between 'love' and 'care'.
I would suggest being straight up with him about it - even if it makes you feel weird and awkward. Guys don't get hints, at all, ever. Just tell him basically exactly what you said in this quote. x
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AlpacaPerson
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1 decade ago
Woah 5"8 and 111 pounds?!?!? I'm 5"4 and 109!!! You are super thin! I'm really jealous of you haha, I'll be way more than that when I'm 5"8. I think you should confront him about it and tell him not to mention your weight again because you're insecure about it. Make sure you mention you get upset when he says that stuff and then maybe he'll see that his words effect you. Maybe even cry a little haha it might help.
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supercalifredge
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1 decade ago
I'm 5'9 140 and people always complain that I'm so skinny even though I eat so much. It does depend on how much muscle and such you have but yeah, you're definitely not fat.
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likemillionares
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1 decade ago
Girl, there ain't no wayy you're fat. I'm 5'6" and 110 lbs, and I'm stick thin, so there is no way in h.ell. And I think you should tell him about how he's making you feel. Not like a fulll blown drama, and not like a whiny "you didn't apoligizzeeeee:, just have a serious conversation about how he's making you feel. You shouldn't just take that. And judging from your height and weight, you're hot. (;
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PurplePinkDreams
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1 decade ago
Either he was joking or he's just an a$$hole. You're not fat! You're very skinny. I'm 5'7 and I weigh 123 and the doctor keeps telling me to gain weight. And you think you're fat? No way. Don't listen to him. I suggest talking to him about it.
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RandomSmileyFace
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1 decade ago
no ur not fat at allllllllll the normal weight for 5'8" girl is like 145-150 or so!!
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Emilyycanfly
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1 decade ago
He sounds like a jerk to me.
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valerieexrainbowss
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1 decade ago
I second this ^
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Breeze
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1 decade ago
I weigh more than you. I'm shorter than you. I didn't used to think I was fat but so many girls with your height and weight for some reason get told your fat and then I just sit here like "Uhhhhh huh........." What's wrong with the other guy you like?
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coolio128
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1 decade ago
First of all . Your not fat ! Trust me . He might be joking around with you about your weight because he knows your not fat and won't take it offensively but all girls do get self conscious wen boys happen to comment about their weight . Look he seems really sweet and maybe it's a good Idea to just put the question straight to him : do you like me or not ? If he's doing all the things you said and acting like you guys are dating, I think if you ask him he will admit to liking you and just because the other girl is pretty DOESN'T MEAN YOUR UGLY . Your probably just as beautiful as her and she's probably as jealous of you as you are of her ! I hope I helped ! Tell me what you think ?
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Rach_K
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1 decade ago
I agree with what someone said further down- maybe he said that just so you wouldn't be all cosy with another guy. Guys do and more often than not say some stupid things which they dot really realise the consequences of. If you two are as close as you say, and it seems like you two are adorable together, take him to one side, somewhere quiet and talk to him. Tell him that his comment, joking or not, hurt you and you don't understand why he said it. Ask him to be honest with you and hopefully you guys can sort it out ^_^
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Rach_K
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1 decade ago
*dont
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squishy37
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1 decade ago
dont worry, guys jus turn into complete a**holes around their friends, but maybe you should try telling him that you were offended by his comment and see what he says? he sounds nice besides from that tho:)
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wittysoftball3
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1 decade ago
What I would do is tease him about something he's a little insecure about to let him know how you feel
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BlackButterflies
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1 decade ago
I'm 5"8 and 140, and I'm anything but fat.
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saralax · 1 decade ago
date that boy! he's playing games with your heart. it's either relationship or friends it seems like. and DANG GIRL. you are skinny!
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