21 faves · 33 comments · Dec 7, 2012 3:49pm
TrappedInWonderland
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1 decade ago
I don't hate you because you're 11.:) But I totally agree with you! When I was 11 I just laughed when peoples "relationships" lasted for ,like, a week.. My best friend had like 5 boyfriends and I thought that it was so dumb.. She's really popular now and my mom thinks that she's a little wild.. But back to this, I would probably have a face to face talk with your friend and really explain that you don't like what she's doing. If she doesn't listen, just let her date him. When their relationship lasts for a month hopefully she'll learn..
If you want to talk about anything else, you can talk to me whenever! :)
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iamatree
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1 decade ago
You have sense, & I personally don't 'hate' people who are 12-...& everyone makes mistakes, so let her make her own and she'll learn I guess.
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xxokiraxxo
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1 decade ago
Awh, its so good that you realize that its not important to have a boyfriend at too young an age (:
i would just wait it out. dont criticize him, because that will make her want to be with him more. just let it die its natural death because believe me, it will. In like, two months at the absolute most. After that, your best friend will be back. good luck!
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OmegleTalk
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1 decade ago
"Make out" At 11? Ugh.
She can have a boyfriend, for you know, to mature etc, but she shouldnt take it so seriously yet.
And if shed rather be with a boy shes been with for a week than a friend shes known forever, her loss.
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joeykangaroo
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1 decade ago
I'm around your age too and some of my friends have boyfriends. One of my friends got together with this guy, the guy is really nice and everything but ever since my friend has been ignoring me and other friends too. We fixed the problem up by just talking to her about her ignoring us. My advice is to leave their relationship alone and speak to your friend, in person.
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forever611
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1 decade ago
I had my first real boyfriend when I was 12...and he's my first and only love. We're still together 4 years later. Honestly you don't know what anyone else is feeling. I'm not trying to be rude sweetie. I'm just saying that unless this boy has broken her heart already or done something else stupid, then just let her be. It's her life and her happiness. I used to hate when my friends would get mad at me for liking a boy. Now I'm 16 and with the same boy and we love each other so much. Soo...just let her make her own decisions.
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ThatsSoMeee
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1 decade ago
If she doesn't want your help ,let her alone. Those young..loves are just stupid.that is not love. she just like the boy. You don't have to worry :)
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EllieMelon
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1 decade ago
Thank you so much. Its an honour to get commented by someone as popular as you. :) Thanks so much. You really did make a difference
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ThatsSoMeee
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1 decade ago
uh.. i did? Hm.. well thanks?! i guess :)
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BringMeTheEric
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1 decade ago
Ask her if she's willing to have a 3-way.
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greyskies
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1 decade ago
seriously? the kid is 11.
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just_paint_the_picture
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1 decade ago
The same exact thing happened to my friend! She said it was "the love of her life". I say you should just leave it alone. As long as you know what's right, let her figure out how stupid she was on her own. If she's still a good friend, just ignore her bad decisions. If she's started being mean to you, I think you should just ignore her for a little. Let her come to her own senses. (I'm 11 too.)
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ClumsyPikaa
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1 decade ago
I think you should let her figure out her mistakes own, If you try to teach her who to go out with and who not, She won't learn from her mistakes. Which is not good. Also if you try to stop them going out she'll think of you as a 'traitor' Whereas if you don't, once they break up (and they will) she'll be back to you just as normal. I really think you should talk to your friend about this because its not nice being forgotten by your best friend.
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queen*
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1 decade ago
tell her she's a and needs to realize boys r stupid and will break ur heart unless ur the proper age when their hormones aren't so riled up
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Bubblezzz
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1 decade ago
OMG! That happens to me at my school.
Girls have "boyfriends" and are marked, hawt, sexcci, and ugly.
Its sooooooo stupid. :P
And....I guess you can't keep friends forever.
Sorry, bro. :P
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allison1225
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1 decade ago
She made a decision, no it's not the right one, but still. She'll learn on her own and when she realizes it looking back, she'll find it silly. It's just the truth. Let her go. You're the boss of yourself.
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ForeverStronger
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1 decade ago
She has to come to the conclusion on her own about boyfriends. I know you want to talk some sense into her, but some people are just a little stubborn and won't take any advice untill they learn the lesson themselves. If it gets too serious, like she starts talking about doing some things that you think will really hurt her in the end (Like losing her V card) then I would talk to your own parents for some advice on what to do, or maybe a school counsler. Your friend may get mad at you, but one day she'll realize that you're just looking out for her.
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Jessy1234
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1 decade ago
boys mess up your mind
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Jessy1234
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1 decade ago
it was funny though cuz she ended up going with my other friends crush
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Jessy1234
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1 decade ago
no one asked me!
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Jessy1234
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1 decade ago
I had a friend who someone asked her to the 6th grade dance by accident and she said yes it was so stupid
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Jessy1234
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1 decade ago
NYC
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dizzier · 1 decade ago
Dont worry. It wont last long.
The same thing happened my friend when I was 12.
It will last about a month at the latest
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