'And when people try
to minimise your pain they are doing you a disservice.
And when you try to minimise your own pain
you are doing yourself a disservice.
Don't do that.
The truth is that it hurts because it's real.
It hurts because it mattered.
And that's an important thing to acknowledge to yourself.
But that doesn't mean that it won't end, it won't get better,
because it will.'

~ John Green