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2-2-13


Well, we've been good for 12 days. It may not seem like a lot but it's a big milestone for us. I'm trying to do all these nice things for him to make him happy and he's trying to do little things to make me happy too, and it's cute... but will we always have to make this much effort? what if we just get tired and go back to our old ways?

One of the things that he's doing to try to show me that he cares is remembering things. He's very forgetful, with everything. His whole Dad's side of the family is naturally forgetful and so is his brother, it used to be very frustrating. A few months ago, he couldn't remember what my favorite color was or even my birthday. Now he knows everything. And he remembers stuff and tells me about stuff that happened months ago that I thought he forgot, and it makes me happy to know he remembers. He also let me wear one of his shirts I've been dying to since like November, he remembered to bring it and he gave it to me. That was really a big deal for me.

Every so often, I have these, anywhere from a few hours to a few days, moments where I think he doesn't care and that i'm replaceable or that he doesn't love me and just... I get really down. Usually this is when we start fighting because of me and my feelings. Something about weekends, is when it starts acting up. Last weekend, I started feeling this way, and didn't tell him about it, and instead of being mean, I was extra nice to him and pushed through it, it got better when I saw him monday.

Thursday night we were talking, and I was just in a bad mood period. So, when he left and stopped answering I guess you could say I got frustrated. He apologized and did not continue anything, I was mad, but we both avoided a fight by me just saying I was going to go to bed. Everything was fine the next morning, we didn't fight.

It's the weekend now, and I'm not feeling like I'm worthless to him. I think I'm starting to get better and believe that he does care about me and that he loves me and wouldn't try to replace me. I hope I stay this happy for awhile.

It's the weekend, I am not feeling bad,
We've been good for 12 days now,
I think we're

Getting Better.


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Getting Better 2-2-13 Well, we've been good for 12 days. It may

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ForeverStronger · 1 decade ago
Hey! So what I think right now is that it looks like he is putting in an effort to make you feel special, and if he's putting in effort then i think you should stick by him. Relationships aren't always going to be perfect and your going to have to keep working on them. they're kind of like a car. You can choose to fix the broken parts in your relationship, or you can decide whether or not putting in the time and effort is better than looking for a new car. In the end, it's your choice on what you think will make you the happiest.(:
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Getting_Better · 1 decade ago
....That was so amazing,! Thankyou:))) You have awesome advice, I really appreciate it. The world couls use more people like you! lml(:
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ForeverStronger · 1 decade ago
Hahah, you're welcome!(: And thanks!!
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MissMisty1996 · 1 decade ago
Okay hi. lol since you asked me to read your quotes and everything i did and well..wow. first, i just wanna say that i went through/am going through the same.exact.thing. not completely, obviously but, pretty close. and it put me through hell and back. let me guess, you care about him more than anything right? and you dont wanna lose him? because, thats how i feel. but, what im going to tell you may or may not help you. its what i did so, it may help. what i did was i got a notebook. i wrote down every last feeling i ever felt for him. and everything that had to do with us. then, i gave it to him. and it did make us closer. so, if you want..you could try that. but a very good thing to keep in mind is that you should never ever hide your feelings. especially from him if he's your bestfriend. if you telling him how you feel causes a fight, then..maybe he isnt the right person for you, you know? he should care about your feelings and try to help you, not fight with you. i hope i helped! and remember if you ever need someone to vent to, im always here:)
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Getting_Better · 1 decade ago
OH MY GOD THANK YOU AND YES I AM SO GONNA WRITE IN A NOTEBOOK AND I WILL WRITE EVERYTHING DOWN I LOVE THAT IDEA. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH
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MissMisty1996 · 1 decade ago
your welcome:) im glad i could help
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LoveYourOwnWay · 1 decade ago
Seriously, do you know me?? LOL..
This is exactly what I am going through!!! But don't worry, it will get better(;

I think you shouldn't get so frustrated, and just keep trying(: trust me
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Getting_Better · 1 decade ago
woah really?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Glad to know I'm not the only one ever!!!!!!!!! & I need to stop being so meannn! lml. yes, thank you :)
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LoveYourOwnWay · 1 decade ago
no problem, just let me know if you need any more help
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dumb_blonde1998 · 1 decade ago
Try not to get to frustrated with him, he probably doesn't mean it. If you feel insecure about him on weekends why not meet up and go out? It's normal to think that he will replace you but you have to trust him that's a big part of this. Just keep trying. Sorry if this doesn't help
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Getting_Better · 1 decade ago
I need to stop getting so frustrated. & that's actually a really good idea. & Thankyou, tthat really does help, I really appreciate it!
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dumb_blonde1998 · 1 decade ago
no problem let me know if I can help anymore
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DiamondDiva143 · 1 decade ago
First, if you think hes forget some things refresh his memory and try not to get frustrated.....and remember if your getting angry try giving each other space for a day either he will snap and come back or u just have to keep trying, it will be difficult but facing it is way better than avoiding it(: srry if this doesnt help much
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Getting_Better · 1 decade ago
True, True! I need to not get so frustrated easily, and if it gets bad, We have to give it space & not say things we will come to regret, I truly appreciate you commenting, with future quotes I post about this, could you continue to help, if you have anything to say? I would really appreciate it:))))))
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DiamondDiva143 · 1 decade ago
of course(:!
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Getting_Better · 1 decade ago
Oh my gosh, thank you so much!!!!!!!!! Really, it means a lotttt to have someone to helppppp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:)))))))))))))))))))
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