wordynerdy · 1 decade ago
Please don't! You are loved! You don't even know the whole story... thingd like this CANT BE CONTROLLED. If you die I will cry a river for you because I would know that I didn't do enough to help. If you kill yourself it won't bring your grandma and mom together. They will each merely blame the other. But if you live then you can make a difference. Maybe you can help heal theirbond. Just think of your friends and other family. Think of how much they will miss you.Think of all of us on witty because we love you and there is already so much pain seeping between the quotes. Stay Strong! <3
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kayleebug · 1 decade ago
Nothing is your fault. things happen that are beyond your control. hun you are beautiful. i know it seems like this cant be turned around ,but with a little hope, faith can go a long way. you are loved. life is a precious gift from god. a gift you should live to your fullest. you are in my prayers. love you
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greyskies · 1 decade ago
If you kill yourself now, wont the past sixteen years of conflict between your mother and grandmother have been totally for nothing.
Instead, you owe it to your mother to live your life to the fullest and make her sacrifice worth it.
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LauzHeys · 1 decade ago
I agree with this, if your grandmother is being stupid like this then you don't deserve her in your life or your mums. If you do kill yourself then your grandma will just blame your mum more and you'll break her heart and she'll have no one in her life. Look your grandma is probably old fashioned, she's not with the times right now but just because things aren't great in your family doesn't mean you have to die! You're a beautiful individual with so much potential in life, please don't die. You're going to have an amazing time in life, you've got so much fun in life. You'll have great sleepoers, fall in love, get married and have your own children. Please don't give up. My dad and grandparents hate me and my family and I felt like dying but it just shows how bad they are and I don't want that negativity in my life. And if it bothers you that much. Why don't you talk to your grandma?xxxxxx Talk to me if you need xx
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inlovewith5boys · 1 decade ago
Please don't. Just take a few minutes to hear me out, read what I have to say and I promise it won't be a waste of time...
u are special, I'm telling you things really will get better.you just feel like things won't turn around. But I'm truthfully telling you, they will get better. NEVER consider suicide you are wasting the greatest gift of al
For a very long time I thought that my parents hated me and just wished I had never been born, you catching my drift. I started self-harming whenever I got angry or sad. I did it in places where no one would look... :/ I don't care what people say about doing it for attention. Unless someone else has felt the pain that I have felt, or the pain that someone else has felt... then they'd never understand!
of course I'm still pretty depressed. I hit new low's all the time, seriously. I'll burst out in tears for no reason at all, it drives me nuts...u just need to realise that life is painful, it freaaking hurts. Seriously, it does..i thought constantly about killing myself... all it did was make me feel worse. but I'm strong because I keep going, even if I hate myself for it sometimes. but nothing in this world is worth killing yourself over
don't ever try and kill yourself cause you are still young and you haven't had the chance to experience the world yet. Your family and ur mum does care as she was the one that brought you into the world
I know how you feel as i have also experienced this kind of crap from my parents,brothers,sis and my whole family..none of them even like me and they have always put me down saying im not good enough or anything, i dont really have any friends at all really, just a small circle of friends. i have felt suicidal for months i just don't really like life anymore :( i just feel too weak to do anything anymore as its way 2 hard but i am trying my best and i have asked for help and im being assessed and seeing a therapist now.i suggest you go and get help if you want because you will feel better trust me and i hope you be ok soon :) you have your whole life ahead of you...people love you!!! i dont know you personally but i love you! n! keep your head high darling
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iloveu4ever51 · 1 decade ago
hey im srry but ik u mean something to someone your special the way u r please don't end ur life.its hard but I understand your pain too okay? just stay strong ur not alone u can talk to me anytime on chat please we don't want you gone
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sassiegirl · 1 decade ago
i dont know you, i dont know you family, but i was there once too. dont leave the world. im sure your family loves you. all the people who commented on this are here for YOU (srry my typings messed up im typing so fast im so scared for you) you need to take a look at your life you have SO MUCH to live for, friends family, your boyfriend, im here for you message me and i will talk with you. your grandma is probably upset your mother got pregenat, but not pregnant with YOU. you are a wonderful person and beautiful! we are all here for you!!!! dont leave please!!!! ,# meassge me
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lexybaybay741 · 1 decade ago
comment on my profile
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angela2698 · 1 decade ago
please don't.
everything everyone else said
they're right.
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Till_Death_Do_Us_Part · 1 decade ago
I was like you at one point. But hunnie, lemme tell you. You mean something to someone out there. Someone out there is dying to meet you. Trust me. Please, i know my words may not help at all. But heres my story. My mom left me when i was a little girl. I dont even remember her. And then, i started drinkin, smoking drugs, and cutting. And then one day i was gonna kill myself. And then i waited a few days. to do it. and the day before i was gonna kill myself. I found out i was pregnant. I felt like my little girl was a gift from god. And he was givin me Sophia to let me know. It wasnt my time to go. Hunnie, its not your time either. Theres so much more out there for you. You just have to wait and see.. If you wanna talk one on one. Please. Comment on my profile. <3 <3
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AlpacaPerson · 1 decade ago
No, oh god no. I don't know you, I've never read any of your quotes before. But I just saw this and now I'm freaking out. You can't kill yourself. Your family will NOT be better off without you. Even if you think they will, you're wrong. Plain and simple. Have you ever thought about how a mother thinks about her kids? A mother loves her kids more than herself, she would die for them. So how do you think she will feel if you kill yourself? Here's some problems:
1. Her daughter that she loved so so so much will be dead
2. Not only are you dead, but you did it yourself.
3. That means that you must have been so miserable and just full of depression that you thought things would be better without you.

Do you have any idea how much that would hurt her? Knowing that you had all these feelings trapped inside and she didn't realize in time to save you? That would just rip her heart out. You will not help her by dying, you would make her feel 1,000,000,000 times worse. I don't know what's going on in your family, but you probably aren't the problem. And even if you are then dying wont fix it. You want to make it better? Then stand up and fix your mistakes. Apologias (I think I spelled that wrong, oh well). And if there is no way to fix it then just say fish. Fck It Sht Happens. Move on with your life. I know I sound harsh but you really cannot kill yourself. You will ruin your mothers life if you kill yourself. I hope I've helped.
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lexybaybay741 · 1 decade ago
everyone in my family, including my own mother has told me that this family would have went somewhere without me.
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AlpacaPerson · 1 decade ago
Well honey that sounds like they have a personal problem. Even if they truly believe that without you things would have been better, there's a key word there. WOULD'VE been better. As in, you can't change that now. Even if the entire family thinks that it WOULD'VE been better without you, I promise that it will not help at all if you kill yourself. You will hurt your family and friends and your witty family. I'm going to keep going onto your profile every now and then to make sure you still come on. Please just tell me you aren't going to hurt yourself? Please? It won't fix anything, it will just hurt a lot of people. And your witty family will miss you, I'm a part of that. I will miss you, please don't die.
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ParticipationAward* · 1 decade ago
she might be mad that you mom got pregnant but she probably isnt mad at you, you had no control of your mom getting pregnant, your just her daughter. even if you die that doesnt mean that your mom never got pregnant; the past can t be changed. and if your mom was crying then because her mom hasnt said that she loves her for a long time your mom definitely doesn't want to lose her daughter; and even thought it might sound weird i dont think that your grandma wants to loose her granddaughter. even if neither of them liked you there are lots of people who do. and either way you should live for yourself, not hate yourself for something that is not in anyway yourself.
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sacarter · 1 decade ago
You're strong and beautiful. I'm here to talk if you need to.
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darkeyeangel · 1 decade ago
Lexi, Hang on!
My mom committed suicide 5months after she had me!!!!
Some things you can't control. But children truly are the greatest blessing of life. LIFE.
Talk to me.
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lexybaybay741 · 1 decade ago
how?
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darkeyeangel · 1 decade ago
Because life is a miracle. Something others can't experience. Hundreds of babies die daily. You were part of the percent to LIVE.
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lexybaybay741 · 1 decade ago
i meant like how can i talk to you? facebook?
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darkeyeangel · 1 decade ago
Oh... My profile has my email
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