ShortGirlsDoItBetter
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1 decade ago
Im on baby number 3 haha kinda strange I know. Congrats!! If you need any advice/help or have an questions dont hesitate to ask me! reply
Swag Unicorn*
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1 decade ago
here is what i would do: "I need to talk to you about your relationship with Kaitlyn. See, it's kind of bothering me that you guys have become so close and that you've been excluding me from most of your activities and well i feel left out, and mostly i feel like you're getting more and more distant. I mean, I love that you get along with my best friend and all but you have to tell me something; do you still love me? I won't be mad, just please tell me the truth. If you still do, I can explain to her also what's bothering me i just need to hear the truth." so like if he says that he loves her, you're just gonna have to "man up" and take it. u really cant control him or your friend. im on your side of course but im telling you what to expect. hope it helps, lol(lots of love, you make that mistake only once...) :D reply
ilyx2
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1 decade ago
theres nothing wrong with them being friendly tbh but its too far when they make plans and then invite you maybe you should take to your friend tell her how you're feeling and just keep an eye on them hope it all ends up ok but if it doesnt remember your not the one who cheated and if your 'friend' wants to be with him instead of you..shes a fake friend reply
M3LlSSA
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1 decade ago
Talk to your friend about it first! If she's truly your bestfriend she'll tell you all you need to know! You should trust her! But it does sound a bit suspicious :/ Good luck! (L) reply
dancingpurplebunny
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1 decade ago
Ok clearly your friend is being a little too flirty maybe you should talk to her first. If they are both not agreeing with you I would end it with him. If he really cared he would try to fix things with you.
I hope everything works out
~dpb reply
sarahisawesome17
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1 decade ago
that ! ask u friend to stop flirting and tell her the truth about how you feel! reply
mooselinaturtle
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1 decade ago
Your friend and him do not need to stop being friends because you don't like it. Think of that in their perspective. You can't control who they're friends with. Also,chances are that you're just a tad paranoid. Trust them. Let them be friends. If it gets worse, that's when you need to reconsider your relationships with him and her. reply
flamingobear
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1 decade ago
Maybe you should ask your friend to stop doing all of these things with him, if she doesn't stop she proboaly isn't your friend or he means more to her then your friendship :) if you ever need to talk though i'm here :) reply
MaddyWaddy
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1 decade ago
Don't blame it all on it boyfriend its your friends fault too. Mostly hers. I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope it works out reply
mikaylah44
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1 decade ago
I know exactly how you feel. Ask your best friend yup stop talking to him and if she's your real friend then she should do that for you. If they keep talking and hanging our even when you asked them not to then I think it's time for a new boyfriend reply
Melvin
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1 decade ago
Sorry to break it to you...but i would dump both him and your friend because they are bound to start cheating on you )if they already haven't) reply
JuliaC123
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1 decade ago
I think you should tell your friend not to text him or hangout iwth him either. Becuase its not just him. reply
alligator98
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1 decade ago
DUMP HIS !!! lol seriously, he isn't treating you like he should be!! Break up with him. Tell him you don't need to be crying every day over him. reply
elysey
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1 decade ago
ask your best friend to stop talking to him and if she doesn't, break up with him. even though you may love him you could hurt yourself even more if you found out he was cheaing on you, and you aren't pathetic either and if your best friend doesn't stop talking to him, she probably isn't your friend :) I hope I helped reply
ilovechu5
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1 decade ago
And I know you think you love him, but we're in high school all relationships end. Would you rather it end now so you can find someone better? Or would you rather stay with him & waste your time feeling like crap reply
ilovechu5
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1 decade ago
Wow what a d*ck. First off you do not deserve that at all. She's your best friend? Maybe not... I mean she didn't have to flirt back she didn't have to give him her phone number. But I am in no ways putting your boyfriend off the hook either, obviously he needs to get his priorities straight. You already pointed out to him that it makes you uncomfortable and that he needs to stop texting her, as soon as he didn't do that you know somethings up, so you need to really think about it. Make a pros & cons list make sure his bad actions don't out weigh the few good ones he has. Plus you could probably find a guy who has all the same good attributes as your current bf but wont treat you like this. I'm really sorry you have to go through all this. Please don't shed another tear for this fool. xoxo If you need to talk I'm here reply
WonderfulLove
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1 decade ago
Talk to your best friend about it too & tell her you don't like the way she talks to him. And tell him you're getting nervous and jealous and keep asking him to stop talking to her.
If she is going to go and flirt with him then she is a bad friend and he needs to stop if he knows it doesn't make you happy. reply
Janerbananer
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1 decade ago
You don't need that. If he's gonna make you cry and tell at you for it and put your friend before you, he's not worth it. You deserve a guy who puts you first and won't make you feel bad or be a jerk like that. I'm not saying you'll find the perfect guy but hun, you can do so much better than that and you deserve so much better. Hope this helps, if you ever need to talk, I'm here <3 reply
IvyRoxx
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1 decade ago
heyy gorgeous can we talk about this??? reply
natalieeeroseee
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1 decade ago
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ShortGirlsDoItBetter · 1 decade ago
Im on baby number 3 haha kinda strange I know. Congrats!! If you need any advice/help or have an questions dont hesitate to ask me!
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Swag Unicorn* · 1 decade ago
here is what i would do: "I need to talk to you about your relationship with Kaitlyn. See, it's kind of bothering me that you guys have become so close and that you've been excluding me from most of your activities and well i feel left out, and mostly i feel like you're getting more and more distant. I mean, I love that you get along with my best friend and all but you have to tell me something; do you still love me? I won't be mad, just please tell me the truth. If you still do, I can explain to her also what's bothering me i just need to hear the truth." so like if he says that he loves her, you're just gonna have to "man up" and take it. u really cant control him or your friend. im on your side of course but im telling you what to expect. hope it helps, lol(lots of love, you make that mistake only once...) :D
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ilyx2 · 1 decade ago
theres nothing wrong with them being friendly tbh but its too far when they make plans and then invite you maybe you should take to your friend tell her how you're feeling and just keep an eye on them hope it all ends up ok but if it doesnt remember your not the one who cheated and if your 'friend' wants to be with him instead of you..shes a fake friend
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M3LlSSA · 1 decade ago
Talk to your friend about it first! If she's truly your bestfriend she'll tell you all you need to know! You should trust her! But it does sound a bit suspicious :/ Good luck! (L)
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dancingpurplebunny · 1 decade ago
Ok clearly your friend is being a little too flirty maybe you should talk to her first. If they are both not agreeing with you I would end it with him. If he really cared he would try to fix things with you.
I hope everything works out
~dpb
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sarahisawesome17 · 1 decade ago
that ! ask u friend to stop flirting and tell her the truth about how you feel!
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mooselinaturtle · 1 decade ago
Your friend and him do not need to stop being friends because you don't like it. Think of that in their perspective. You can't control who they're friends with. Also,chances are that you're just a tad paranoid. Trust them. Let them be friends. If it gets worse, that's when you need to reconsider your relationships with him and her.
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flamingobear · 1 decade ago
Maybe you should ask your friend to stop doing all of these things with him, if she doesn't stop she proboaly isn't your friend or he means more to her then your friendship :) if you ever need to talk though i'm here :)
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MaddyWaddy · 1 decade ago
Don't blame it all on it boyfriend its your friends fault too. Mostly hers. I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope it works out
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mikaylah44 · 1 decade ago
I know exactly how you feel. Ask your best friend yup stop talking to him and if she's your real friend then she should do that for you. If they keep talking and hanging our even when you asked them not to then I think it's time for a new boyfriend
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Melvin · 1 decade ago
Sorry to break it to you...but i would dump both him and your friend because they are bound to start cheating on you )if they already haven't)
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JuliaC123 · 1 decade ago
I think you should tell your friend not to text him or hangout iwth him either. Becuase its not just him.
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alligator98 · 1 decade ago
DUMP HIS !!! lol seriously, he isn't treating you like he should be!! Break up with him. Tell him you don't need to be crying every day over him.
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elysey · 1 decade ago
ask your best friend to stop talking to him and if she doesn't, break up with him. even though you may love him you could hurt yourself even more if you found out he was cheaing on you, and you aren't pathetic either and if your best friend doesn't stop talking to him, she probably isn't your friend :) I hope I helped
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ilovechu5 · 1 decade ago
And I know you think you love him, but we're in high school all relationships end. Would you rather it end now so you can find someone better? Or would you rather stay with him & waste your time feeling like crap
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ilovechu5 · 1 decade ago
Wow what a d*ck. First off you do not deserve that at all. She's your best friend? Maybe not... I mean she didn't have to flirt back she didn't have to give him her phone number. But I am in no ways putting your boyfriend off the hook either, obviously he needs to get his priorities straight. You already pointed out to him that it makes you uncomfortable and that he needs to stop texting her, as soon as he didn't do that you know somethings up, so you need to really think about it. Make a pros & cons list make sure his bad actions don't out weigh the few good ones he has. Plus you could probably find a guy who has all the same good attributes as your current bf but wont treat you like this. I'm really sorry you have to go through all this. Please don't shed another tear for this fool. xoxo If you need to talk I'm here
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WonderfulLove · 1 decade ago
Talk to your best friend about it too & tell her you don't like the way she talks to him. And tell him you're getting nervous and jealous and keep asking him to stop talking to her.
If she is going to go and flirt with him then she is a bad friend and he needs to stop if he knows it doesn't make you happy.
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Janerbananer · 1 decade ago
You don't need that. If he's gonna make you cry and tell at you for it and put your friend before you, he's not worth it. You deserve a guy who puts you first and won't make you feel bad or be a jerk like that. I'm not saying you'll find the perfect guy but hun, you can do so much better than that and you deserve so much better. Hope this helps, if you ever need to talk, I'm here <3
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IvyRoxx · 1 decade ago
heyy gorgeous can we talk about this???
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natalieeeroseee · 1 decade ago
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