i know the saying "Everybody is doing it" is so common now, but no, everyone is not doing it. Your virginity is something that you will never, ever get back. You cant loose it than change your mind afterwards. I know that everyone says to wait until you find someone you really care about to loose it to but go beyond that. Wait until your husband or wife comes along, because if that person loves you enough to marry you, than they deserve a gift that you haven't given anyone except them. To some that may seem old fashion, but I think its pretty cute to loose your virginity to each other on your wedding night.