I met him about two years ago. At first I never
would've imagined that we'd ever get this close as we are
now because he is so much older than me (it's all legal.
I'm 21:P) It took a while until I was even able to have a
conversation with him because I was too shy and too scared of his
reaction. But once I got over this we started to spend a lot of
time together getting closer and closer with each time of seeing
on another. On my breaks I would always go with him and help him
with his paperwork, he also paid me for working for
him.
After my internship I went to the US for two months. I didn't
expect us to even keep in touch or anything. But when the time
came for me to leave we said goodbye to each other and he told me
to message him from time to time. The first few days I was gone
he called me everyday and after that we talked at least two times
a week. When the time got closer to going home I was telling him
that I still need to tell my parents to come pick me up at the
airport. He then offered to come pick me up, which he did.
This was two months ago. Ever since then we spent almost
every day together. He got his license suspended for a month and
he asked me if I could drive him around for the next four weeks.
I said yes because he had already done so much for me. He was
always there for me no matter what, so I thought that was the
least I could do for him. And since I was/am still looking for a
job it wasn't as if had anything else to do
anyway.
But these past week things have changed. He's been really
moody and I feel as if no matter what I do or say it is wrong. It
is okay for him to tell me anything he wants, but when I say
something about him he gets mad. I always thought that maybe he
has feelings for me too, but lately I'm not so sure about
that anymore. The other day he told me that things weren't as
they used to be between us. This sounded almost as if we were
dating and as if he was "threatening" me that we'll
stop spending so much time together.
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Alpaca Prophet * · 8 years ago
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Sounds like you need to just sit down with him and ask what's happening between you two. Ask him why things have changed, i don't think it would hurt to tell him how you feel he's been acting, as long as you're not a jerk about it, just make some communication and stop assuming or letting yourself get the wrong idea. Tell him how much he means to you and you want this relationship to work out even if it's not romantic. I've never been in that position but that's what I think the right thing to do is.