I can't find people attractive without knowing them first. If someone says, "Do you think so-and-so is hot?" I will usually reply, 'I don't know." but once I've had a few conversations with them and I know that they're really funny and they like dogs more than cats and they're an only child or whatever, I'll be able to answer yes or no. I think that's why I've had feelings for people who everyone else deems 'ugly', because I've talked to them and hugged them and listened to them, so I know that they're not ugly, not at all, not where it matters.