seafoam* posted a quote
September 5, 2017 7:54pm UTC
I wanna know if you bleed sometimes from other people’s wounds, and if you dream sometimes that this life is just a balloon — that if you wanted to, you could pop, but you never would ‘cause you’d never want it to stop.
seafoam* posted a quote
August 19, 2017 6:32pm UTC
When you ask someone why they stayed when they could have left the heartache, the pain, remember, there are days when even you have chosen the hell you know rather than the hell you don’t. —How to Empathize with Situations and Pain You Do Not Understand
You are still the child who gently places fallen baby birds back in their nests. You are still the soft soul that gets your heart broken over cruel words and awful acts when you watch the news. You are still the gentle heart who once tried to heal a flower by trying to stick its petals back when ignorant feet trampled it. This is why you are important. This is why you will always be needed. Kindness is the greatest endangered thing. And here you are, existing, with your heart so full of it. @ enrikute
seafoam* posted a quote
October 2, 2016 12:46pm UTC
“ I am a sponge for the emotions and energy of others. When spirits are high, my state of mind is calm and untroubled, like a wave rolling gently in to the shore, but surround me with anger or sadness, and like a ship in a storm, my mood sinks like a stone. ”
When you really listen to another person from their point of view, and reflect back to them that understanding, it’s like giving them emotional oxygen.
“ I need to learn how to stop destroying myself, stop being hard on myself and be nice to myself. I need to keep telling myself that I need to keep wanting something, something nice, something warm…so I can make other people happy. I can understand other people’s pain because I can love even after all that is left of me is gone because I have that strength. ”
seafoam* posted a quote
February 15, 2016 5:35pm UTC
Please leave format credit to 1986! I’ve always treasured empathy as the particular privilege of the invisible, the observers who are shy precisely because they sense so much—because it is overwhelming to say even a single word when you’re sensitive to every last flicker of nuance in the room. “
capsized* posted a quote
November 10, 2015 11:10pm UTC
┌_____________________________┐ Its come to my attention that the people of this world have become so intolerant of things that they don't understand, BEFORE THEY EVEN TAKE A CHANCE TO TRY AND UNDERSTAND IT. To say that Caitlyn Jenner is not a woman because she once was a man is disgusting. Yes, there are other woman who deserved the Woman Of The Year award more than Caitlyn Jenner. But that doesn't give you a right to say she's not a woman. You do not know how a transgendered person feels inside themselves. Just like a person without depression doesn't know what it feels like to be depressed, they don't know the inside feeling that is not expressed. So for you to say she's not a woman and misgendering her is a blatant act of ignorance and refusal to use empathy to try and understand something bigger than what's inside your little box. Makes me so mad. The same goes for the ignorance of being scared of an entire race/religion/group of people because a few psychotic extrimists who happen to be a part of said race/religion/group decided to act erraticly and cause harm to others. You CANNOT BLAME AN ENTIRE GROUP OF INNOCENT PEOPLE FOR THE ACTIONS OF A FEW CRAZY ONES. IT DOES NOT WORK. IT ONLY CREATES PROBLEMS. LIKE PREDJUDICE. Where have people's hearts gone?? Where is the empathy? Why are we so quick to be enraged by stupid B U L L S H I T that we don't stop to think "Hey. Is this a stupid thing to get mad about? Is my anger or fear logical? Am I being an utter A S S H O L E about something so senseless?" └_____________________________┘
Anujsomany posted a quote
October 21, 2015 2:24am UTC
“Speak with the HEART and it helps to meet a person on the same nature part; Speak with the MIND and it helps to bind with a lot of people whose real intent behind every kind word needs to always find.” ~Anuj Somany
Anujsomany posted a quote
September 14, 2015 12:50am UTC
"Empathize with someone who has buddies none or just a few one, but sympathize with somebody who boasts to have allies in a ton or many one because he or she has then herculean task in hand to correctly weed out the negative people and rightly read in a positive person." ~Anuj Somany
Want to be a rebel? Make someone smile. Buy a coffee for the man sitting out in the cold with his spange jar. Help someone who has fallen up, physically or emotionally. Practice empathetic listening.
sometimes we just need to get over the fact that not everyone is going to understand us and our points of view. most people can feel sympathy, but they can't always feel empathy because they haven't been in the same situation and we should accept that that's 100% okay. just because somebody can't understand or relate to your situation and your opinions, it doesn't make them stupid or ignorant and it doesn't make you more intelligent than them. people experience and understand different things. so don't be a dxck with a superiority complex, yeah?
I used to hate that I was empathetic. I used to hate that I'd always be putting myself in someone else's shoes without even realising I was doing it. I used to hate that I cared about how my words and actions affected people. I used to wish I could be a little less empathetic. I wanted to be able to speak my mind and not care about anyone else's feelings...but now I realise how stupid that is. I finally appreciate that characteristic and am happy to have it. I'm surrounded by people who lack it and that made me want to mimic them and be more outspoken. But Now I know that being outspoken doesn't mean saying whatever and not caring about what comes next. But saying what matters, without the need to belittle someone else or rub someone the wrong way. Caring is so so soo important. These days it's looked as if it's something cool to not care about anything- when it's not. Because a kind person is cool. Being compassionate is cool. Being a considerate person is cool, and being a good human being is super cool.
i am a house made of concrete and many do not bother to visit. but i feel like a window when he looks at me. i feel so transparent, so raw and clear. i cannot hide at all. and when he looks at me - truly looks at me - he looks past all of the dirt and shards of broken glass. he crawls through the window, cutting his hands, until i can feel him sitting within the house of my soul.
To be honest with you, I don't have the words to make you feel better, but I do have the arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about, and I have a heart; a heart that's aching to see you smile again. - Unknown
F O R M A T C R E D: _Janette | DON'T REMOVE PLEASE
seafoam* posted a quote
September 15, 2014 6:12pm UTC
“ The thing that inspires me most is empathizing with people’s flaws and seeing how they deal with them. That sort of connection you feel with someone when you realize that maybe even the negative things that they’ve said or done are because of insecurities or injuries they’ve endured. ”
Some people think only intellect counts: knowing how to solve problems, knowing how to get by, knowing how to identify an advantage and seize it. But the functions of intellect are insufficient without courage, love, friendship, compassion, and empathy.