what you said was: "I don't respect women who don't respect themselves."
what you meant was: "I, and society as a whole, hold women up to ridiculous respectability standards directly relating to the "purity" of said women while hyperséxualizing them at the same time and, if you are a woman and don't fit my awkward monolith of criteria ,then i refuse to acknowledge your humanity."
what i heard was: "Hi, i'm a misogynist piece of shît, please punch me in my face."