this sounds really cliche
but like any teenage girl i have a crush on this guy
his not nesissarily the hottest guy in our school, so i get alot
of comments from my friends saying i should look at the hotter
girls, but he is super sweet
ans several people have told me that he likes me to, and that we
would be really cute together
and the thing is that i think he might like me back, but then
there are just these really small moments where i am so
confused
because i have this friend who is going through a really tough
time and so we are trieing hard to keep sharp objects away from
her
but because he is really good friends whith her, and he used to
have a crush on her, i don't know if he still likes her
if he knew how much i liked him
if he knew how much i cried for him
and the thing is, he knows i like him because the girl i already
told him, and everyone is saying he told them he likes me
but sometimes i can't tell, and no matter how hard i try
i can't get over him
i don't want to
but i think i need to, because i think i'm going to get hurt
in the end
if anyone has any suggestions on what to do that would be great
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Amenah · 1 decade ago
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I know that when this comes from a stranger, it sounds like the easiest thing in the world when it's actually really hard, and trust me, I KNOW how hard it is to do this: talk to him. Honestly. As awkward as you may feel in that moment, you will NOT regret just getting your feelings out in the open, and in the end, if the worse case scenario happens and it DOESN'T work out, at least you can say to yourself "I did my best, I gave it my all, I held nothing back ; it wasn't meant to be."
While if you were to not talk to him and tell him you like him and honestly ask him if he feels the same way, you might never know. And trust me -- regretting something like that really hurts, and it also makes getting over him (should you have to) so much harder and more painful.
And hey, this way, there is a chance - and from the looks of it, a BIG chance - that you'll get yourself a boyfriend by the end of it.
So best of luck, doll. I hope it all works out for you. xo