nicole🌹* · 1 decade ago
thanks so much for following me :D
i'll follow back no problem
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
no problem!!!!!!!!
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She is Morgan* · 1 decade ago
I sw Colton Dixon in concert this summer.. That man is attractive
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
YES YES YES YES YES (sorry it took a month to reply i dont check profile comments that often... hahaha)
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*nerium* · 1 decade ago
Okay, so this might (will) be rather (extremely) long (and tedious). So here goes.

If you're angry, frustrated, or restless, do something like this: Slash an empty plastic bottle or a piece of heavy cardboard or old clothing. Make a soft cloth doll to represent the things you're angry at. Cut and tear it instead of yourself. Use a pillow to hit a wall, pillow-fight style. Rip up an old newspaper or phone book. On a photo of yourself, mark in red ink what you want to do. Cut and tear the picture. Get some model clay (play-doh, whatthefuckever) and cut or smash it. Throw ice into the bathtub or against a brick wall hard enough to shatter it (I find this one EXTREMELY affective and therapeutic). Break sticks. Listen to angry music. Clean your room (or your whole house). This expels energy quickly and I guess it's productive? Go for a walk/jog/run. Anything that expels pent up energy is good. Stomp around in heavy shoes.

If you're feeling numb, unreal, dissociated or craving sensation/pain; do something that creates a sharp physical sensation, like this:
Squeeze ice hard (this really hurts). Putting ice on a spot you want to burn gives you a strong painful sensation and leaves a red mark afterwards, kind of like burning would. (I used to do this one a lot). Don't use salt to increase the sensation as it can give you frost bite.
Bite into a hot pepper or chew a piece of ginger root. Rub liniment under your nose. Slap a tabletop hard. Snap your wrist with a rubber band. Take a cold bath. Stomp your feet on the ground. Focus on how it feels to breathe. Notice the way your chest and stomach move with each breath.

If you're feeling sad, melancholy, depressed, or unhappy, try something like this: Do something slow and soothing, like taking a hot bath with bath oil or bubbles, curling up under a comforter with hot cocoa and a good book, babying yourself somehow. Do whatever makes you feel taken care of and comforted. Light sweet-smelling incense. Listen to soothing music. Smooth nice body lotion into the parts or yourself you want to hurt. Call a friend and just talk about things that you like. Make a tray of special treats and tuck yourself into bed with it and watch TV or read. Visit a friend.

If you want to see blood, scars, or pick scabs, try something like this:
Draw on yourself with a red felt-tip pen. (This actually works really well, I thought it wouldn't but I gave it a go and I sort of felt content, in a way, afterwards).
Use red food colouring in any such way, like putting some drops into an ice cube dray and later dragging the ice across your skin.
Paint yourself with red tempera paint.
Get a henna tattoo kit. You put the henna on as a paste and leave it overnight; the next day you can pick it off as you would a scab and it leaves an orange-red mark behind.

If you want the familiar ritual of self-harm:
Go through your “ritual” doing everything but self-injuring. This means that you go through the motions of preparing to self-harm, you unpack your tools, your bandages, you get the right music, or whatever it is you find yourself doing while you hurt yourself, and then, at the moment when you would normally start self-injuring, you pack it all away. You can do this again and again until the urge leaves you. (I got this one from FirstSigns: “Everything But” Rule.)

Some people also find it helpful to bandage themselves as if they’d self-injured.

I'm very sorry that this is so long and I hope you find it useful in some form or another. I also understand if you've completely ignored this entirely because honestly, it's massive and I didn't intend for it to be at all.
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
I really appreciate this. Some of the best (and most) advice anyone has ever given me. Thanks so much. <3
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*nerium* · 1 decade ago
No problem! I'm glad you found it somewhat useful - I was worried that the length would put you off.
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
haha nope. words dont scare me.
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
Meow meow meow-mau-mau meow I put a pretty ingenious thing on nates ask he should answer ok meow meow mau meow
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
well then.
what type of drugs are you on?
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
sleep deprivation
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
ah makes sense
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
wanna oovoo and avoid hw with me
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
is that a no

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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
hey idk if you WANT to and if you dont then dont but I always wanted to see myself through someone else's eyes, through their perspective, like how someone would write about a character in a book, stuff like that. You dont have to do it, and if you do then you dont have to show me but ive always been curious. like something honest like that because i know the way i perceive peope before i meet them is different and idk it just seems like something cool to do.
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
ill do it as a christmas gift to you. once this damn research paper is done
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
yay! it shall be done soon i dont wanna do it I have edits to make darn
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
haha the struggle is real.
omg i almost died when mr. t said dam.n straight today in class
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
I nearly died he was all oh my i just sweore please forgive me
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
oh gross he aske dyou out on 11/12/13. ewwwwwww yuck.



(kinda jealous thats a cool date to stick on your instagram profiile-if you had one-be making dem bit ches jelly)
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
and our 1 year 1month 1 day will be 12/13/14
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
OH F YOU SO MUCH RIGHT NOW GOOD GRACIOUS UGH YOU SUCK
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
haha I KNOW
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SecretlyBrokenAndSilentlyHoping · 1 decade ago
I have signed up for them, but I haven't had time to read them recently ):
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
his most recent talk was amazing. :)
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
oovoo babe
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
on the phone with my gma. like 15 min
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
kk just tell me first
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
k ill text your iPod
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
http://www.wittyprofiles.com/q/6510183
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
may i ask which aspect of my emotional self this is directed towards or should i just take the words of wisdom as they are?
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
and that's just what my dad tells me whenever im down

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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
I like how you fave my quote on Christians
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Kaleidoscope Eyed* · 1 decade ago
Hi... i dont know its just peopel say im not listening to them and i am all i do is listen and its tearing me apart. nobody listens to me but im expected to listen to them an when i do talk i talk about dum s.hit im just really stressed and idk what to do because i feel like im about to burst but i cant tell anyone ...

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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
I know what it feels like love. You cant please everyone but if you try all that you are doing is destroying yourself. Honestly, dont forget about you. Voice your opinions and surround yourself with people who care. Trying to help everyone is heroic but if you tear yourself apart in the process you arent really helping anyone.
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Kaleidoscope Eyed* · 1 decade ago
i know its just i dont know :(
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
ive been there before. I know. it sucks. but trust me just dont lose sight of yourself. its not worth breaking
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Kaleidoscope Eyed* · 1 decade ago
thank you <3
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blue_eyed_babe11 · 1 decade ago
haha same but i'm a big procrastinator
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
me too!!!!! I can't do anything unless it is last minute
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blue_eyed_babe11 · 1 decade ago
haha same where ya from?
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
RI you?
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blue_eyed_babe11 · 1 decade ago
New Jersey

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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
cool
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Chris* · 1 decade ago
Have him. I found a new boy and he doesn't know it yet..
He's actually really picky when it comes to girlfriends.
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
really? I have a boy I'm like in love with its just your quotes make him sound so sweet
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Chris* · 1 decade ago
Yeah he has a very poetic mind. He reads a lot too. He's just a very deep thinker. He has a temper on him though lol
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
oh I c.
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blue_eyed_babe11 · 1 decade ago
so i love your profile, song, gif, pics, bio and i think you too lol :) wanna be friends :P
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
thanks so much lovely! Sure! HELLO NEW FRIEND!
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blue_eyed_babe11 · 1 decade ago
Howdy whatcha doing :p
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
on witty obviously. I should be doing summer work but ya know..
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永久* · 1 decade ago
Thank you for the fave <3
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
how about purple ponies you befriend in really tired hay doing acrobats, yes?


now read the first the letters only
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
Eileen hasn't wwished me hapy birthday y beat her. ;)
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rachlgirl · 1 decade ago
i do enjoy beating things.
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
she probz doesn't even know its my birthday. so you can rub it in even more. you're welcome. xD
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
hahaha thankssssssss
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fighting_to_live · 1 decade ago
Heey:) just thought id see how you're doing?:) <3
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
good. happy today cuz its my bday. :D
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fighting_to_live · 1 decade ago
:) Awwh happy birthdaay:D have a great day! <3
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
thanks love!
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Zoë* · 1 decade ago
Thanks for the fave :)
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永久* · 1 decade ago
Thank you for the fave lovely :3
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
thanks for the follow! :)
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永久* · 1 decade ago
Haha, you're amazing, you deserved the follow <3
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
aww thanks. <3
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*silvergirl* · 1 decade ago
Your comments <3
Thank you
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someoneinhiding · 1 decade ago
anytime. <3 you deserve to live a happy and fulfilling life. never forget that.
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