NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
yes it is, trust me. you are an amazing person
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I don't feel like an amazing person.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
but you are, and you deserve to feel like one! dont get yourself down
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I'm really not a good person. I'm always down. I don't deserve anything.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
yes you do deserve stuff! why wouldnt you!? and if you dont think youre a good person, why dont you take the negative things out of your life and become who youve always wanted to be, be the best you that you can be@
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I just don't deserve it. My whole life is full of negative things.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
you cant look it at that way, you need to find the positive out of it, and dont say its not there because it is always there!
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I haven't had anything positive in my life for the longest time.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
sometimes you have to make the positive, trust me
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I'm just not positive.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
then thats the kind of thing you have to change in your life, it wont be easy and it might not come natural but its one of the best and most noticeable changes you will make in your life
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
Doubtful.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
i can promise you that it is, i can promise that because i have gone through that, i was always the ugly girl nobody liked i was awkward, i was weird, i was bad at everything, then i decided to bleach my hair to try fake tanner, wear lots of makeup, make sure i only bought a certain type of clothes and act a certain way, and ill tell you it doesnt work, it makes you appear shallow, it makes you, not you, and it will make you miserable, youll lose who you are and itll be hard to find yourself, it led me down roads i never wanted to go, and slowly i stopped caring, i started doing things i wanted to do, not things to make me popular, i got involved in my church, i joined a sports team, i joined clubs, i stopped bleaching my hair, i stopped wearing so much makeup, i even stopped styling my hair every day, and honestly i became much prettier, i became much happier, i made so many new friends, true friends, i found out who i am, and thats what you have to do, you have to be the change in a positive way, simply changing your outlook can change your entire life
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
Nothing can change me. Not the way you're talking about, anyways. I'm just stuck like this.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
the only thing making you stuck at this point is you
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I've always been the peoblem.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
so be the solution
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
It's not that easy.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
its not going to be easy at first, but you have to be willing to make the change and take the first step
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
It's just so hard.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
but that doesnt mean it will be worth it, you cant give up just because something is hard
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
Well I've given up on everything. I'm just..lost..and confused. I'm just done.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
why would you give up when you have so much ahead of you
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I have nothing ahead of me. Not anymore.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
yes you do, everybody does
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
Well it doesn't seem like it.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
trust me, you do you just have to start somewhere and make an effort
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I'm tired of disappointment.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
so do something your proud of then and start making a positive effort to change your life in a good healhty way
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I'm not really proud of anything.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
then thats why you need to do something to be proud of you cant just sit there feeling bad you need to go out and do something or nothing will ever change
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