rososadiaz · 1 decade ago
Do not worry pretty girl... Lile Shantideva said: "If you can solve your problem, then what is the need of worrying? If you cannot solve it, then what is the use of worrying?"
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
That is so wise. I really worry a lot, and that helps.
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rososadiaz · 1 decade ago
Worrying does not solve anything and life will continue, so you let go of things and enjoy life as it is. At the end everything will have happened and nothing was as important as you thought, Amile and live everyday as if was your last ;-)
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Yolo! Haha just kidding. So true.
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rososadiaz · 1 decade ago
LOL! :-)
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Sapphire101 · 1 decade ago
It's fine baby, everything happens for a reason and at this time you might not know what the reason is but just know that we're all here for you, and my mum's like that ( i read the other comments) just go out, have a meal with your mum and talk about everything like adults, me and my mum went to McDonalds and sat there for three hours, purely talking about life. And even if she still doesn't care, cope with it until you can move out. Whatever happens just remember, your mum is gonna need you someday so never ever turn your back on her, no matter what she does. I'm not gonna tell you to stay strong because that's really hard sometimes and sometimes you just wanna scream and shout and let it all out (had to, sorryyy) so do it, lock yourself in your room and sing loudly to old songs (e.g Maroon 5, she will be loved) and let all of it out. However, DONT CUT. That is a dark and deep hole that once you enter, it is freaking impossible to stop. I know this and cutting is just hurting yourself bc you hate yourself but when you cut, you hate yourself more and that just makes you cut more and etc. So please don't self harm, vent to anyone of us. We're always here. Just keep smiling babe, I promise, things will get better. They always do :) xx
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Thank you. It's just, I know my mom cares, but yeah, that's what I'm doing..Just avoiding everyone in my family and I just took my laptop in my room and stayed there. I thought about self-harm before, but I can't do it. I'm just so tired of everything..I have problems.
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Sapphire101 · 1 decade ago
You don't have problems, I guarantee you that. It's normal to think about self-harming. It's when you actually do it that you have a problem. So please don't and anytime x
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
No I do. I have no friends, and I'm not a good person. People hate me because I speak the truth and I'm not full of b.s. And when I look at people, they are so comfortable in their skin, and I'm not. I hate myself sometimes.
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Sapphire101 · 1 decade ago
I feel like that everyday but I promise you're not a bad person and if people don't realize that, they're stupid, it's ok not to be comfortable in your own skin atm, give it time, you need yo grow into your skin before you get comfortable in it. Don't hate yourself, life's too short.
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
It is
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ErinRAWR · 1 decade ago
I'm always here.
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
I'm just so tired of life, is that even possible?
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ErinRAWR · 1 decade ago
it's possible. I felt the exact same way.
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
It's just; I'm tired of crying. I just want everything to be okay, and I know that's never going to happen.
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ErinRAWR · 1 decade ago
are you a religious person?
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Well, I'm a Christian
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ErinRAWR · 1 decade ago
do you believe strongly in Him?
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Yes I do.
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ErinRAWR · 1 decade ago
honestly, when you're feeling so scared and so alone, just pray. connect with god. my sister was about to step off a chair with a rope around her neck but she realized she had god. god has gotten me and my family through a lot. just pray and know he loves you.
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Thank you.
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countrychic98 · 1 decade ago
talk to me:)
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
You sure..? It's more like venting.
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countrychic98 · 1 decade ago
honey, please. people come crying to me all the time. i love the feeling of being able to help if i can:)
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Well, I'm sitting in my basement, watching MacGuyver, on witty, and my twisted ankle is killing me.
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countrychic98 · 1 decade ago
omg how did you twist your ankle???
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
I was playing volleyball, went up for a block, came down, landed on my ankle. I heard it pop so loudly. I was crying because I was laughing so hard.
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countrychic98 · 1 decade ago
ooooohhh...sounds very painful:( anything i can say/do to help???
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Yeah. Just having someone to talk to is great. Do you know any funny jokes? lol
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countrychic98 · 1 decade ago
Okayy... how you you make holy water???
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
I don't know
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countrychic98 · 1 decade ago
you boil the hell out of it:)
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Hahah, that was good.
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countrychic98 · 1 decade ago
yeahhhhhh....wanna another one???:)
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Yes. I love your jokes.
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countrychic98 · 1 decade ago
hahahaha okay...... what do you do if an idiot throws a gernade at you???
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
idk!
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countrychic98 · 1 decade ago
pull the pin and throw it back at them!:)
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Ahahaha!!
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Dayka* · 1 decade ago
I'm here for you. :)
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
It's nothing, but I just feel terrible and so worthless.
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Dayka* · 1 decade ago
What's up? You can tell me about it if you'd like. Feel free to vent to me.

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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Well, I had volleyball league today, and I was doing really good, then I blocked and fell down on my ankle. I heard it pop, and omfg it hurt so much..I'm one of those people who, when in pain, laugh through it. I have to walk so it doesn't swell, and it hurts. (I'm sorry I seriously hate to complain) and I called my mom and she sounded disappointed in me.
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Dayka* · 1 decade ago
It's okay girl! I know you did really good during that time, and it's fine that you had an injury, it happens. It doesn't mean you have to tear yourself down. You are great. Remember that :)
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#wishicouldgetyouback* · 1 decade ago
Thank you. But there is more.
I told my mom about a situation with my "friend" and she didn't say a word. So I asked her what's wrong and she flipped out on me. Said she is tired of us kids getting hurt, and we just shouldn't go out for sports, I understand where she is coming from, but she just yelled at me. I said, "Seriously? Well I'll be fine, by morning, it will be okay." and she just told me she didn't care.
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