Whatawittyfeeling · 1 decade ago
Oh, honey. You're not a mistake. At all. God has a plan for you, believe it or not. You're absolutely here for a REASON. Don't you ever let ANYBODY make you feel like a mistake, because you're not. That's not fair to you.
As for the things your mother said, that is NOT okay. I'm sure she didn't mean them, but you listen to me here for a moment. Your mom cannot talk to you like that. It's not okay. What I want you to do is start distancing yourself emotionally from mother. Let her words hurt you less, because they don't mean anything. Always remember that. Her words are nothing. Nothing. You are everything. I love you, darling. You're beautiful and perfect and absolutely wonderful in every way. YOU DESERVE TO BE HERE. It's okay. It's okay. You're loved and cared for and IMPORTANT. Don't you EVER let ANYONE, make you think differently.
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WhenWordsFail · 1 decade ago
Look, people get mad and say things they don't mean. Your mum loves you, maybe she's not showing it right now but i'm sure she does. Just apologise for whatever it was you did wrong, tell her that what she said has really hurt you, sometimes you have to speak for people to understand. If you need someone to talk to send me an email at beautystartswithyouu@hotmail.co.uk xo
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EndingMyLife · 1 decade ago
last time i tried to tell her that what she said hurt me, she slaped me so hard i fell to the ground...
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WhenWordsFail · 1 decade ago
What did you do that made her so angry? (you don't have to say if you don't want). Tell her you're sorry, that you love her, that you just want your mum back. Is there no one else you can stay with for a while? you know just to give each other ssome space maybe. you're not a mistake so please don't believe it xo
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EndingMyLife · 1 decade ago
I have nobody.. and i cant say that i love her becuase honestly in my heart i feel like i dont.
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WhenWordsFail · 1 decade ago
how old are you? is there not a friend or grandparent or someone?
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EndingMyLife · 1 decade ago
all my family lives in another state/country. and i don't really have friends.
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WhenWordsFail · 1 decade ago
If things are getting really bad maybe you should talk to your mum about moving states to live with a relative then:/ just hold out a little longer, it could all get better in time.
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EndingMyLife · 1 decade ago
she wouldn't let me.. i already asked acuple monthss ago and we just got into a big fight. Its been like this for 8 years.. im only 13
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WhenWordsFail · 1 decade ago
aw man that sucks:/ well if you've managed to hold on for eight years then just try to hold on for another five, when you're 18 you have control over yuor life. 13 is a t age, it was literally the worst year of my life and the same for a lot of people i know. its the year whhere more drama happens outside of your home which just adds to the drama at home and it just sucks major time. Whatever you do don't give up, if ever you feel like you're geting too weak to carry on or that you're goin to do somethin stupid just send me an email i try to check my emails everyday. obviously you live in america and i live in england so there's the time difference but i wll get back to you as soon as i can
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