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I need to get this
off my chest. Ok, so I've never had a boyfriend.
And yes, I want one. I want one for my 13th birthday.
But that's only a week away, and I only have two guy
friends... but both has a girlfriend. And I've never
kissed a boy... not in daycare, or ever. And so many
different friends have said they were gonna get me
boyfriends,, but none ever tried. One friend is currently
trying, but she hasn't picked out a boy yet (sounds wierd,
right?? haha). And whenever I like a guy, he finds out,
and he starts to ignore/hate me. && I'm not sure why. Am
I ugly to guys?? Am I fat to guys? Am I annoying? What
is soo wrong with me? And all my friends have boyfriends
or had boyfriends, or had they're first kiss. And some of them I even helped get their boyfriend. And my friend said not
to force it on myself, a boy will come along. But the 
truth is, I've waited. And nothings happened. So I'm
not sure how any of you can help... but idk. Any advice??
Thanks if you read this://

 

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41 faves · 160 comments · Oct 28, 2012 11:36pm

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skf97 · 1 decade ago
LOL I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. Trust me, you aren't missing out. All 'relationships' are at your age are disappointing and drama starting. Guys are confused af at 12 anyways. Besides any real relationship won't be based on looks, you'll find a guy that loves you for who you are. You could find him now or 4 years from now, there is no need to grab for a guy who doesn't know what he wants.
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WishingUponAStar · 1 decade ago
Honey, you're only 12. You should wait~
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katiekaye97 · 1 decade ago
girl youre still 12. calm down. im 15. no first kiss. one boyfriend ever(live in a small town so its hard to date people youve legit been with since the age of 5) and im not worried. i know it will happen. sure i care and wish it would just come along, but you know when it happens, it will be perfect. you're gorgous(spelling?) so keep your head up high and dont rush anything. happy almost birthday beautiful(:
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
haha, its fine I cant spell that either... and thanks:))
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katiekaye97 · 1 decade ago
and i just saw your other quote about dance, so good luck(: what grade are you in? grade has a lot to do with when guys will date too
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
7th grade. (haha, but ill probably skip a few grades, just if you're curious, but all the guys in my town think they're freaking awesome, so they all date {they're mostly stupid, except for that beautiful homeshooler that goes to my dance studio, skylar, but he has a gf and when they break up he'll realize he wasted over a year with her and that he loves me}) haha, yupp:))
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katiekaye97 · 1 decade ago
hahah! i hope it works out then(: and the guys who wanna date in 7th grade? DONT DATE THEM. waste of your time!
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
Haha, yupp:)) (but skylar is in 9th grade.............................. and hes beautiful, but then theres his stupid 7th grade girlfriend, and they flirt during dance -___________________________________________________-)
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katiekaye97 · 1 decade ago
oh thats always awkward.....
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
totally.
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fakingasmile · 1 decade ago
Don't sweat it! Your almost 13! You have plenty of time to get a boyfriend! But for some advice, I would say just be yourself, and if he likes you for you, then he's the one:)
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
thanks:))
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softballlover123 · 1 decade ago
Sweetie, I'm 15, never been kissed, never been on a date, and a guy just asked me out last wednesday. It'll happen when it happens. Think for a moment , "Do I want a boyfriend because it's cool", or "Do I actually like a guy and want him to be mine?"
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
the guy I like has a gf -.-
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softballlover123 · 1 decade ago
Then move on, because he's probably not the one
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
he doesnt know, haha, i just started liking him { and his gf was talking about breaking up with him and i was like YEEEEEESSSSSS } they've been dating for a year
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Coast2Coast · 1 decade ago
I honestly disagree with the people that say she is "too young". I think IF the opportunity shows itself, that she should say yes and have a boyfriend. Nothing too serious. But it would be good to at least have a little experience in having someone else to rely on or trust for later years when she is in a more serious relationship. If she doesn't have a clue about what she is doing, that's worse than having a middle school relationship :/
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
thanks:))
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Bubbleboo · 1 decade ago
You arent even 13 yet. you dont need a boyfriend just because you want one. it may be "cool" or whatever, but its better haveing no relationship then a bad relationship. Im 14 and only had one boyfriend for like a week. never had a first kiss either. enjoy being single and young while you still can. its not all that great growing up. you will be older soon and maybe you will find the right boy. but for now enjoy life as it is. dont go with the flow of everyone else. if you are teased about it or what ever who cares. you sound like you have nice friends, just stick with them. school is more important for your future. someday the right guy will come along. for now just be patient
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
Im not teased about it coz im homeschooled. but thanks:)) and go here if youre curious as to why i want a boyfriend: http://www.wittyprofiles.com/q/6377288
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Bubbleboo · 1 decade ago
yeah I understand more from reading that other quote, but maybe you should still let things happen. Maybe the right guy will come along soon. maybe not. but I hope you do find a nice guy because you seem like a nice girl that knows what she wants to do with herself and guys will probably like that about you
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
thanks:)) and yea, i probably should've put some of that information on this quote, hhaha
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mairmair8 · 1 decade ago
alright i never had a real boyfriend until i was 13 and a half. never kissed someone until i was almost 14. and im 15 now and not a virgin. seriously take it from me, you don't need a guy. if theres one thing i learned from my relationships were that i was too young to really appreciate them. having a boyfriend should NOT be a top priority when you are 12 going on 13. you are what, in the 7th grade? focus on friends and school. boys arent important right now. and one will come along eventually, maybe not in the next week or month or even year. but it will happen. plenty of my friends are 15 and some even 16 and never had a boyfriend or been kissed. trust me there is no need to rush things. i did and sometimes i wish i wouldnt have. i lost a lot of great friends because of obsessing over guys. its not worth it. middle school is time to focus on having fun with friends and clubs and sports and improving yourself. wait til high school til you really start obsessing over guys, and even then you really dont have to. they are all the same and its not worth the heart ache. dont push it and trust me it will come at somepoint. my sister never had a boyfriend throughout highschool and now she is happily married with children. love happens for everyone at different times. dont stress over not having a boyfriend, you are young girl.. go have fun!
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
Thanks:)) but haha, I'm homeschooled.:)) but thats pretty good advice:))
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mairmair8 · 1 decade ago
glad i could help! :) i just read your other quote about wanting to be a dancer and i just wanted to say thats another reason you dont need to obsess over guys! you have an amazing dream and sounds like you will achieve it, and you know what? you will probably meet him through your dance career. you sound like you have a great life ahead of you so dont worry the right guy will come at the right time :)
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
thanks:)) (haha, 85% of guy dancers are gay. OH WELL. haha) I think you're the only person that read the quote:)) but I do agree with you in some ways
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mairmair8 · 1 decade ago
haha well you never know, he could be part of that 15% who isn't :p haha ... but yeah i'm just really glad i could help you. if you ever wanna talk i'm always here, just comment on my profile and i'll get back to you! i'm great with advice cuz i've had a pretty crazy life. haha :)
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
thanks:)) and haha, statistics!! (also, you can talk to me to, im a good listener:))
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mairmair8 · 1 decade ago
haha :) well the stuff i'm going through right now requires a lot of back story....
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
Oh, haha:)) that's ok, if you wanna talk I'm here:))
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mairmair8 · 1 decade ago
oh well i have to get to doing some homework tonight, but can we talk about it tomorrow? (btw reading my quotes my help with the back story just a little bit.. )
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loveforeveryourbeautiful17 · 1 decade ago
VVVV except im 14


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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
thanks:))
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loveforeveryourbeautiful17 · 1 decade ago
i feel your pain. im going through the EXACT SAME THING
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xHello · 1 decade ago
You're 12.. wait 4 years.
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
Look, I can't wait 4 years. Go to my quotes, and I made a second quote on why. This is getting on my nerves.
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xHello · 1 decade ago
You're too young.
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
Oh. My. Gosh. just read this:http://www.wittyprofiles.com/q/6377288
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jeter7 · 1 decade ago
youre 12...you shouldnt already be worrying about getting a boyfriend. enjoy your youth...
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
I really can't do that. Go on my profile, and read my second quote on this topic
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bethanysheaa · 1 decade ago
It's alright, calm down. I'm 15, and I'm single. Never had my first kiss. And just wait, the right guy will come along and think your his everything. It'll happen, no worries :)
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
thanks:))
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RANDOMme · 1 decade ago
Dude, dont even sweat this. I'm 15 and i dont have a boyfirend, never had my first kiss, and it's totally not killing me. If u try too hard to find one, then guys will know, and they'll think u r desperate. Turst me, you'll find one. SOme one who is perfect for you in every way and you guys will be happy, but for now, focus on urself instead of the boys. It shows them u r confident with urself and that is a big turn on for them :)
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
Thanks, and ya, I'm not trying too hard, because I've never asked anyone out(or had anyone ask someone out):))
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AerilynLilyoh · 1 decade ago
You're twelve. Almost thirteen. My Goodness child, why would you want a BOYFRIEND??? I'm fifteen years old and just got a boyfriend. You are still in your childhood. I know you feel like your mature and old and is old enough for a boyfriend but you're not. You will have this boyfriend for maybe a couple months, think your heart it broken ans then you'll be over it.
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
I don't really think I'm that mature and old. Just go here, and you'll see why http://www.wittyprofiles.com/q/6377288 :)) thanks
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Whor_an · 1 decade ago
omg me too. but im 14 and it sucksss |
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LoveLikeWoexD · 1 decade ago
You're twelve. You don't need to waste your childhood chasing for your /him/. You probably haven't even met him yet. So take my advice, and don't be stupid like I was and rush into a relationship you're not ready for. I had my first boyfriend a week after I turned 13 years old. Thats completely too young. And I wish I had someone a few years older than me to tell me that. Because, honestly, I wish I hadn't gotten myself into a situation like that. Thanks to that boy, I lost my first kiss, and my first real relationship. And thanks to him, I also lost my best friend, and got myself into trouble with a girl I didn't even know. I wouldn't wish a mistake like that on anyone. So just take your time, sweetheart, and I promise your prince will come.
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
Thanks, and I agree, but go to this link to see why: http://www.wittyprofiles.com/q/6377288
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xLoveGabriellax · 1 decade ago
This is the story of my life! And don't worry you are beautiful! The right guy will come at the right time(: if you need someone to talk to i'm here!
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Cheerchic_06 · 1 decade ago
I'm fifteen and almost four months ago me and my best guy friend started dating. He was my first kiss. We are still together. He is my real relationship. Don't worry about finding a guy.. you are so young. Enjoy your childhood while it lasts. Best Wishes--(:
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theglassbutterfly · 1 decade ago
Thanks, and I hope it works out well for ya guys:))
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dancealwayss1213 · 1 decade ago
you're only twelve, you have time. I'm 15 and i've never had a boyfriend or been kissed, and i'm not worried at all. just enjoy your childhood while it lasts
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