People always worry about the same things. There are lots of vain, stupid, ignorant people in the world.....so many, that it's scary.....It makes me not want to socialize with most people. Obsessing over your looks or your weight won't make you automatically better looking or happier. Obsessing over having or not having a boyfriend or girlfriend won't make you instantly less lonely...People are lonely because its a feeling within themselves.....another person isn't instantly going to take away those feelings. Obsessing over how many friends you have or don't have or how many material things you own won't make you any happier or fulfilled. The point is, nothing good comes from being obsessed. Happiness isn't a prize that's won. Happiness, like lonliness, is a feeling inside.....happiness depends on yourself, not someone else.....I think lonliness is a state of mind, not how many people are around you. Because a happy, content person can spend most of their time alone, and feel perfectly fine, while a person surrounded by people and attention, can be miserable deep down. Being alone doesn't mean you are lonely or unhappy, and being with people doesn't mean you happy