You know, I only just realized.
You're always going to be judged, so why the f not just do what you want?
Be whoever you want. Love whoever you want. Kiss whoever you want. Be with whoever you want, whenever you want. Wear whatever you want. Color your hair however you want. Cut it too IF YOU WANT. Work where you want. Or dont. Live where you'll be the happiest. Or the saddest. Or whatever it is that you would like to be. Act however you'd like. Laugh as loud as you want! Cry when you want to. Or dont. Literally just do whatever the hell you want. You're always going to be judged for your choices, so why the heck not enjoy it?