I guess I always new a problem would arise with 2 out of 3 of his siblings. Because I sensed it. He has a brother who loves debates, and goes against everything I say and articulates very extremely well to the point where I should really stop talking or I'll end up sounding stupid. Really stupid. He loves the sound of hsi own voice. He said he appreciates me texting him a while ago, like reaching out to him. But then I stopped.

He has a sister in law who I feel gives me the shadow of doubt all the time, I remember pointing out the other day trying to engage in a conversation with her, saying mia looks very little (in a mamograph) she was like it's an xray she wasnt born yet (duh I knew that ) I mean how many months is she?What month was it taken?
and she did not respond at all and Im glad this happened infront of everyone. To me I feel like she does not respond. She thinks I dont respond.They're trying to figure out why I am the way I am, and they're quesitioning whether my heart is in the right place. Wheather my intentions are good. 

Solely on the reason they feel extremely disrespected. They sat my bf down and had a chat with him. Little does my bf know I have been having conversations with them. Especially when he leaves me I dont have a choice. 

He has another brother who I kind of see as him, however he has jumped on bored with the pausy on their opinions.


Apparently I don't greet them properly. I didn't know hugging them was absolutely manditory. I guess I have been treating them like friends. Opposed to Aunties. I only hug elders. I realize they're elders too. 

Apparently when his grandma who passed away got me a sweater I did not get up to hug her,  i gave her a side hug. I did not think getting up was mandatory because she was literally sitting right beside me on a seat. Thats what his brother who reminds me of him a little bit said.

Apparently I don't make eye contact with them, or acknowledge that they're present. i don't play with their niece either who is I think is 2. Literally because I'm not familiar with kids, I dont have any babies in my family the only one I have is scared of me because my brother taught him I'm the scary aunt. Yeah. So I don't engage with her and because I don't engage with her thats a big problem.