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  1. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    April 27, 2016 4:33pm UTC
    ** HONESTY IS KEY **
    Despite the wonderful things we shared in the past 2 years of knowing each other, it's the bad that make you question wheather you want to marry me or not.
    Which altogether to me is a contradiction. Telling someone they mean the world to you and at the same time telling them that they're unsure about you in a 2 year span are reed flags.
    Our biggest worries were external reasons of us not working out in the beginning. i.e family not accepting him
    Now that, that's cleared the problem is me.
    1) You're still young
    2) I don't like how you carry yourself
    3) It's too soon for weddings
    4) I don't like talking about weddings (because of this - but you never did in the first place)
    5) I'm unsure about you
    6) YOU have to adapt to MY family, what if you don't get along with them
    7) To get married is a life long commitment, I'm not sure if I want that with you
    If after 2 years you can't make up your mind
    Can you remain happy with someone you may very well have started considering “the one,” knowing he’s sure you aren’t his one?
    If knowing your boyfriend doesn’t see a future with you now, what would be your reason for ending the relationship eventually?

  2. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    February 23, 2016 1:12am UTC
    I hate when you ignore me.
    I hate that I have to go out of my way for them to like me.
    I hate myself.
    I hate that I put you first.
    I hate that I don't believe we have a future.
    I hate that you made it clear we wouldn't earlier in our relationship.
    I hate everything.
    I hate that I'm hurting right now.

  3. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    February 23, 2016 12:22am UTC
    So today, I reached out to his bro, asking a follow up question based on our last conversation. Asking him how his second day of his new job is going.
    No response. You would think someone who uses whats app all teh time would response, but nope. I'm getting the cold shoulder.
    I dont really care that much this might turn into an eva situation. But when my bf ignores me too it really gets me fired up.

  4. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    February 21, 2016 6:20pm UTC
    I guess the fact that he dumped me does not mean anything, anymore. I have apologized to his bro. Both ppl appreciate it.
    Bf said he L word me, and that i mean more to him than anything including his business. wow.
    mission talk to his bro and sis are next

  5. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    February 21, 2016 4:39am UTC
    operation get tight with their fam/siblings = proposal

  6. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    February 20, 2016 12:16pm UTC
    If you’ve gotten this far, you’ve probably unknowingly received her approval, but that doesn’t mean you’re ‘in’ yet. The key to bonding with your future sibling is to build your own relationship with her. Sounds a tad intimidating, I’m sure.
    If your future sister is going to be a bridesmaid, she needs a special gift. In my opinion, a personalized present is the easiest way to go. -
    -texting
    -shopping
    -spa
    -mani/pedi
    -mini vacation
    Find out what her interests are and make an effort to talk about how she spends her free time.
    Try and carve out some time so you can be alone together. Do an activity, go for a walk/drive. Just something so you can get in a quality conversation from time to time.
    ---
    1] Enquire about her husband, children, work etc.
    2] If you think your sister-in-law is a good cook, tell her. And don\'t forget to ask for her recipe.
    Here are 10 things to remember as the years go by:
    1. Don’t try to impress her.
    In the beginning it’s pretty hard to resist. You want to make sure she likes you, but going overboard will only hurt your chances. Instead of showing off your personality and talents, show her how much you love her brother.
    2. Learn to ignore things.
    She’s going to say and do things that bug you. Knowing when to brush them off is essential to building any relationship.
    3. Understand and accept their relationship.
    When my only brother got engaged, I got jealous. I love my new sister and she’s the perfect person for my brother, but she also became the leading lady in his life. While I still have an amazing relationship with my sibling, it’s different. I’m no longer his confidant, partner, or best friend—she is. But guess what? I now have a sister—something I’ve always wanted.
    My SIL was patient and understanding when it came to my brother and me. She respected what we had and worked on building something special with me. I recommend you give this a shot, too.
    4. Learn how to compromise.
    The key to any great connection is communication and compromise. You’ll need it with your new husband and your new SIL.
    5. Pick your battles.
    You won’t always be able to ignore things, but be careful when choosing your battles. If she crosses the line, call her out! Just handle it in a kind and constructive way.
    6. Keep them out of your marriage.
    This tip is huge—and one you should remind your fiancé about. If he’s close with his siblings, he probably confides in them. But your marriage should be something the two of you work on, and third-party advice isn’t always desired. Your arguments, issues, and intimacy should stay between the two of you. Getting the SIL involved won’t help in the end.
    7. She’s an individual—not just another member of his family.
    The SIL is just one part of the family. Get to know her on a deep, personal level—you’ll be happy you did.
    8. Spend one-on-one time together.
    Find things the two of you have in common and use them as a foundation.
    9. Think of them as an ally.
    She’s a woman—there are things she’ll understand about you that your spouse won’t. She can be the ultimate ally, not only in his family but in your life!
    10. Be yourself.
    Your fiancé fell in love with you for a reason—she will too! Be yourself and you may just find the sister you never had.
    Do you have any pets? What is your favorite thing to do in summer? What is the most annoying book/movie/song you have ever heard? What do you love most in life? I hope you and your future sister become great friends, but don't beat yourself up if she doesn't take to you.

  7. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    February 20, 2016 11:49am UTC
    Now operation humilate myself begins.
    Where the first time in my life, I have to kiss a** with people who I feel don't and never liked me in the first place. But apparently when we broke up his sister in law was the one who told him to get back with me.
    I must greet everyone with front hugs now when I see them and ask them how they're doing and engage them with conversations. Make eye contact and play with their baby. To me a baby is what a computer is to old people. That is how familiar I am with babies. So you can imagine how awkward that will be.
    I don't know if how I act will come off as genuine, it may come off as me appearing uncomfortable and forced. I need to make my bf happy so I guess I have to suck it up and do it.
    I start by messaging the oldest brother when he lands back to his town.

  8. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    February 20, 2016 11:44am UTC
    I guess I always new a problem would arise with 2 out of 3 of his siblings. Because I sensed it. He has a brother who loves debates, and goes against everything I say and articulates very extremely well to the point where I should really stop talking or I'll end up sounding stupid. Really stupid. He loves the sound of hsi own voice. He said he appreciates me texting him a while ago, like reaching out to him. But then I stopped.
    He has a sister in law who I feel gives me the shadow of doubt all the time, I remember pointing out the other day trying to engage in a conversation with her, saying mia looks very little (in a mamograph) she was like it's an xray she wasnt born yet (duh I knew that ) I mean how many months is she?What month was it taken?
    and she did not respond at all and Im glad this happened infront of everyone. To me I feel like she does not respond. She thinks I dont respond.They're trying to figure out why I am the way I am, and they're quesitioning whether my heart is in the right place. Wheather my intentions are good.
    Solely on the reason they feel extremely disrespected. They sat my bf down and had a chat with him. Little does my bf know I have been having conversations with them. Especially when he leaves me I dont have a choice.
    He has another brother who I kind of see as him, however he has jumped on bored with the pausy on their opinions.
    Apparently I don't greet them properly. I didn't know hugging them was absolutely manditory. I guess I have been treating them like friends. Opposed to Aunties. I only hug elders. I realize they're elders too.
    Apparently when his grandma who passed away got me a sweater I did not get up to hug her, i gave her a side hug. I did not think getting up was mandatory because she was literally sitting right beside me on a seat. Thats what his brother who reminds me of him a little bit said.
    Apparently I don't make eye contact with them, or acknowledge that they're present. i don't play with their niece either who is I think is 2. Literally because I'm not familiar with kids, I dont have any babies in my family the only one I have is scared of me because my brother taught him I'm the scary aunt. Yeah. So I don't engage with her and because I don't engage with her thats a big problem.

  9. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    January 31, 2016 7:36pm UTC
    Good Update:
    We're talking again. His grandma is in ICU (intensive care unit) because she's really not doing well. I told him to lie to her and tell her we're getting married, because that will excite her and made her get better soon. She really wants him getting married soon.
    Today after we started talking, I started to see again why we're together. He admit he'd hate the idea of me ignoring him and being busy all the time. I'm the only person he talks to other than family, I'm his closest friend.
    Today the good memories come back, When he used to surprise me with raspberry macaroons at work, or raspberry Godiva chocolate because he knew it was my favorite. Plus it always made my day. There were no goodbyes without a hug. Every hello was with a hug. We'd be at restaurants with me talking about anything, because I always have something to talk about! and he'd sit there listen, attentively. We'd be laughing at things.
    We are all smiles when we are together, with not a problem in the world in mind. We really enjoy the present when we are together, no past thoughts or future thoughts. Time is a valuable, as the pendulum swings. There is no better way I could possibly spend it.
    I get to see him tomorrow. I'm looking forward to this.

  10. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    January 31, 2016 3:23am UTC
    Anyone can jump in and be my therapist
    Is there some improvement in our relationship?
    I suppose- he's told me he loves me once, while hugging me why didn't he look me in the eyes and say it the way my ex did. I said it back after thinking about what I just heard.
    I got lost once in a place literally full of a bad crowd, and he dropped me home. Random kind act. Its raining, he makes me take the skytrain. Because it's too dangerous, doesn't call to ask if I'm doing okay, whether I made it home after he gets home nothing. I get home at 11:20. When I was dropped off on the sktrain at 10.
    We don't discuss my occupation anymore, it's a thing of the past. My parents have met him, I've met his. Even been to his house dozens of times. Everyone including me is saying lets get married. He. He told me he's used to being the baby of the family. That's why he doesn't rush. I ask my gut right now why he does not discuss marriage or give me a date like normal couples do. He is unsure.
    Why doesn't he text me the way I text him constantly. If things don't work out with him, the fact that my parents are involved now - they're going to end up finding somoen for me because they're going to think that I'm not good at it. What happens to him, will happen to him after that it can't be any of my concern.
    I don't want to hurt myself again, I'm hurting now. Questioning weather this is a real relationship, does he love me if so? why doesn't he look me in the eyes, why doesn't he talk about marriage, why when i bring up marriage he gets so f'n weird.
    Why all of a sudden is he saying that I'm perfect appearance wise when before he used to say 24 inch waist is ideal, he straight up said 2 days ago on the phone i need to do something about my acne and stop eating junk food.
    As of now, I'm talking to him less and less everyday. It's his turn to make things right. I'm sick of trying. If he turns out to be a douche, hell every guy on the planet is a douche. Period. So whoever I end up with will be no better than him. Life.
    I told him today I'm not mad, why would I be. He said he doesn't know. *Munwhre bells are ringing*
    I'm 23 now, still no ring on my finger. No career either so. hmm. I'm not that pretty right now either, so I might as well work on that while I'm ignoring him.
    I won't be posting our picures on instagram anymore. I'm just going to make us a separate account. on ig

  11. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    January 31, 2016 3:22am UTC
    Anyone can jump in and be my therapist
    Is there some improvement in our relationship?
    I suppose- he's told me he loves me once, while hugging me why didn't he look me in the eyes and say it the way my ex did. I said it back after thinking about what I just heard.
    I got lost once in a place literally full of a bad crowd, and he dropped me home. Random kind act. Its raining, he makes me take the skytrain. Because it's too dangerous, doesn't call to ask if I'm doing okay, whether I made it home after he gets home nothing. I get home at 11:20. When I was dropped off on the sktrain at 10.
    We don't discuss my occupation anymore, it's a thing of the past. My parents have met him, I've met his. Even been to his house dozens of times. Everyone including me is saying lets get married. He. He told me he's used to being the baby of the family. That's why he doesn't rush. I ask my gut right now why he does not discuss marriage or give me a date like normal couples do. He is unsure.
    Why doesn't he text me the way I text him constantly. If things don't work out with him, the fact that my parents are involved now - they're going to end up finding somoen for me because they're going to think that I'm not good at it. What happens to him, will happen to him after that it can't be any of my concern.
    I don't want to hurt myself again, I'm hurting now. Questioning weather this is a real relationship, does he love me if so? why doesn't he look me in the eyes, why doesn't he talk about marriage, why when i bring up marriage he gets so f'n weird.
    Why all of a sudden is he saying that I'm perfect appearance wise when before he used to say 24 inch waist is ideal, he straight up said 2 days ago on the phone i need to do something about my acne and stop eating junk food.
    As of now, I'm talking to him less and less everyday. It's his turn to make things right. I'm sick of trying. If he turns out to be a douche, hell every guy on the planet is a douche. Period. So whoever I end up with will be no better than him. Life.
    I told him today I'm not mad, why would I be. He said he doesn't know. *Munwhre bells are ringing*
    I'm 23 now, still no ring on my finger. No career either so. hmm. I'm not that pretty right now either, so I might as well work on that while I'm ignoring him.
    I won't be posting our picures on insitagram anymore. I'm just going to make us a separate account. on ig

  12. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    April 8, 2015 4:00am UTC
    What is love? Why does the word make me hesitant, why do I chase what will never come to me.
    Don't look at what love is in movies, script writers make it appear perfect. Look at what God has written out for you and oh dear trust me it won't be peachy like movies.
    What's love to you?
    - Thinking about someone all day
    - Surprising them, doing what you can to keep them happy
    - Remembering the things they say to you
    - Liking or even acting like you like those close to them
    - Wanting to spend your time with them
    - Wanting them around
    - TELLING THEM YOU LOVE THEM & MEANING IT
    - making sacrifices for them that you surprisingly thought you'd never make
    - not calling it quits after your stupid fights / resolving fights ASAP
    - Actually seeing a future with them, and not saying MAYBE it won't work out. That's like saying yeah I don't love you, I can see a future without you if stuff doesn't work out
    -
    I don't seem to believe he loves me. How is that thinking lowly of him? It isn't. I feel distance when I'm with him sometimes. Signs are there that you have nothing there. Yes he was a nice guy, but this guy thought with his head more than his heart. Kind of makes you wonder what size his heart is. You've been super hurt in the past before, of course you're gonna be cautious. But you are a strong woman, you're amazing. You're capable of anything and you don't need to get hurt over and over again.
    It's like he was sick of me anyways. He wants a pamela anyways.
    You'll always be more beautiful on the inside than out and I don't mind. I like making ppl smile anyways :)

  13. ReignMaker ReignMaker
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    April 7, 2015 3:43am UTC
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    March 13, 2015 6:58pm UTC
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  15. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    March 13, 2015 1:17am UTC
    In your first paragraph you say that to make sure you both want the same thing and are ready for a step as big as moving in together, you asked your boyfriend whether he saw a longterm future with you. One would presume that, since you were doing the asking, you do see a longterm future — possibly leading to marriage — with this man, and that any answer from him to the contrary would mean you don’t “want the same things,” right? Well, your boyfriend truly does seem to be the “amazing guy” you say he is because he gave you a huge gift — the gift of honesty. He told you that he can’t see himself ever marrying you or having a life with you. It must have been a real blow to hear those words, but you are very, very lucky to have heard them now versus one, two, three years down the road after moving in with him and investing more time and energy in a relationship that doesn’t have a future. I know so many women who would have killed to hear those words before spending a big chunk of their 20s — and 30s — with men who would never commit to them.
    So, knowing what you know now, you have to make a decision — one I really, really hope does NOT include moving in with the guy; you have to decide whether you’re going to stay with your boyfriend and enjoy the “here and now” or whether you’ll spare yourself further hurt feelings down the line and move on already. That’s a decision only you can make, but I can pose a few questions for you that may help you arrive at that decision a bit more clearly. First, can you truly enjoy the relationship anymore knowing that your boyfriend likely doesn’t feel for you the way you feel for him? Can you remain happy with someone you may very well have started considering “the one,” knowing he’s sure you aren’t his one? Would you just stay with him as long as he didn’t dump you for someone he has stronger feelings for, or do you anticipate some end date in the future you both agree on? If knowing your boyfriend doesn’t see a future with you now, what would be your reason for ending the relationship eventually? Obviously, it would have to end eventually. Relationships that don’t have a longterm future always do. So, would you rather be the one to control when things end, or do you want to give him all the power? By staying with him indefinitely, you do know you’re opting for the latter, right? If that’s something you’re OK with, and if you’re OK knowing you aren’t your boyfriend’s choice in a life partner and that you’re simply someone to enjoy companionship and intimacy with until he finds someone he likes better, then by all means, stay with him. But if you aren’t OK with all of that, I think you know what your decision needs to be. And really, the sooner the better.

  16. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    March 13, 2015 1:06am UTC
    'i guess all i'm saying is when you expect a forever commitment from me, it's really not something i can say...
    you just never know what can happen. It is truthfully how i feel.'
    what does this mean?

  17. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    March 6, 2015 9:28pm UTC
    one day we havnt spoken. it feels like a long time

  18. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    March 6, 2015 2:27am UTC
    You're very very impuslive woman, who demands things from ppl and fail to realize that sometimes they don't want to do as you want them to. Or you imagine things are going your way. I read all you previous relationship quotes... and you fail to read in between the lines.
    You're failing to read in between the lnes of your current relationship too.
    There is your self analysis. You paid the price already once.
    Dare you pay it again with the next one? He wants the best honey. He's dumped you once and even without realizing it blurted out how he can't settle for someone still figuring out their life. And these obstacles he's giving you over and over again. This is not insecurity telling you that he's going to dump you its your instinct, its your brain.
    I demand you not to speak to him for the next 25 days, you are and you will be in a relationship with yourself for the next couple of days. And you'll find out why they run away.
    Focus on school! & your fitness. Stay drama free. You are a queen. You will aspire to inspire and become a better woman day after day.

  19. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    March 4, 2015 1:21pm UTC
    I guess my biggest fear is being alone. Having no one to love me, having no one to hug. That's what makes me human.
    I hold onto my Bf who doesn't give two f's about me because I feel I just may love him, and that we get along so great that there can't be someone better than him.
    Now I am looking into modeling, fitness. Jobs. I shall be the best I can be

  20. ReignMaker ReignMaker
    posted a quote
    March 4, 2015 1:09pm UTC
    So last night right after eating a brownie, I asked him why do you always say you're unsure about our future. We were cuddled up.
    He asked me where do you see yourself 3 years from now?
    I said happy. He said no really. I thought about it and said what do you mean? He said do you see yourself with a c a r e e r? fit blah blah blah.
    I said dispatch. He looked at me like oh wow. How lame. But didn't say it.
    He then said I can't settle with somone who's still figuring their life out in a smug way. He sounded so sure. So confident.
    I got silent. Then and there I thought what if I never become something, what If I remain in this minumum wage job. What if I'll never be successful.
    He's going to leave me point blank again. This guy has nothing to lose. He's successful, I guess he'll always have someone.
    He's always been what if we don't work out. What if because of your parents? I say It's in my hands. What if the wedding doesn't work out- I go silent. What if you're not at where you want to be career wise (YOU'RE STUPID YOU LOSER, YOU'RE A NOBODY)
    At that moment, I realized I may be just an option. He did not take in account how he feels for me. What type of person I am. Perhaps I was wrong about him and hes like every other piece of sh*t but just better at voicing his opinion and sugar coatingn his words.
    Until now princess, I really want you to workout hard, very hard. Get those abs to show. Get smarter. You learn to voice your opinion better. Be a better person than yesterday and please as every day goes by smile, and keep that sense of humor running. It is the only thing that will help you get by.

:)

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