*Go Down Fighting* · 9 years ago
What's wrong?
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Nicklebee · 9 years ago
Everything. And i truly mean when i say everything. This whole year has been a big fat middle finger and i'm just… there isn't a word for it.
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*Go Down Fighting* · 9 years ago
Well, what went wrong first? (I'm sorry we can't sort this out on chat, it has decided not to work)
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Nicklebee · 9 years ago
Well, literally New years day (like 1am) i had to put my cat to sleep. Then we had a near death experience when my aunt went into labor and almost lost the baby, and she herself almost died… And my great grandparents.. Well my grandma actually did die of cancer, and my grandpa is pretty much a ticking time bomb till he dies too.. Then this person i absolutely adore and care about dearly is starting to excessively drink and smoke. And for the first time in a while i cried, the most ridiculous, ugly, heart wrenching cry.
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*Go Down Fighting* · 9 years ago
Alright, I'm going to try to reply to this and hope you don't want to kill me afterwords
1) I know it hurts when a beloved pet dies, it's as I they're part of the family but instead of dwelling on the fact that they're gone try to replace those thoughts of cherished memories of the creature
2) Both of them are alive and healthy though, right?
3) That's some terrible (excuse me) sh*t to have to deal with. But same thing applies as was to the pet (no offense hopefully) cherish the memories you have of them
4) Your grandpa is still alive though, correct? Spend time with him while you can and ignore how long you have to do it.
5) My friend has the same problem with me and the whole drinking thing (oopsies) but she explained to me how she felt about it. Try explaining to your person how it makes you feel and as far as I understand it just try to be there for them. Try to give them a reason to stop
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