NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
your looks dont define you, and your body size does not define how attractive you are
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
Well that's not how people go about it in in my life/where I live.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
it doesnt matter what the other people think
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
It matters to me.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
why does it matter so much? being skinny doesnt get you places in life, but having a good personality, being smart, friendly, and an overall good person will!
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
It matters to me. I don't like the way I look. I want to change, and I am changing. I don't care what I have to do, I'm changing myself. I hate being the only one looking like this. I'm an outcast, and I hate it.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
please trust me on this, its not worth it. the grass is always greener on the other side... why would you ever want to surround yourself with people who only are with you for the way you look or the fake you, its not worth it, i have been there years ago, and i will honestly tell you they were the most miserable years of my life, you need to surround yourself with people who know the real you. dont change for the wrong reasons, if youre going to make a change make a positive change about yourself, like volunteer somewhere more, or start eating healthy or things along those lines
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
It's just..I want to change, and I'm going to. I don't care how, I'm changing.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
tell me one thing then, why is it so important to be the "prettiest skinny" girl, what do you think that will get you in life?
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
Happiness. True bliss. Or at least I hope.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
if thats what youre really searching for then being pretty isnt the way to get there, the way to get there is to get involved in something you care about, work hard in school so you are able to go to college and become who you have always wanted to be, the way to get there is to simply find happiness and the good in yourself, you cant expect looks to do that for you
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I don't care about anything. I just really want to be skinny and pretty. It's been my goal for as long as I can remember. That is the only thing that might make me happy. Until then, I'm stuck the way I am. Constantly unhappy.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
see thats the thing though, you need to change your mindset. honestly i bet youre gorgeous, but youre choosing to see the bad side of you and pick out all your little flaws, if i did that i could talk about how ugly and terrible i am too, i mean im too skinny, i have awkward knees and legs, my eyes are a little uneven, my skin isnt as smooth as id like it to be, i have scars on my body, my eyes are also slighty different colors, my eyebrows and my hair color dont match, i have wierd looking fingers because of slight arthritis, i have weird natural hair, and i could go on and on, but you have to ignore the negative and think about the good, and i dont know how many times i have to tell you that looks do not matter.
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
But they mater to me. In all honesty, I'm the most ugly person I know. And I'm not just saying that. I truly believe it. And sorry to say it, but I really can't believe what you say, mostly because you don't know what I look like. But I'm simply ugly. I'm fat and ugly.
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NorthernSweetie · 1 decade ago
i really wish you would believe me, because i know what youre feeling i have been through it, and i know that it can get better, and that is why you should believe me
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sparkels1998 · 1 decade ago
I don't even believe in me. Don't take it personally.
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