lost dreamer* · 1 decade ago
Oh my gosh I am sooo sorry Elyssa. I don't even know what to say.. :/
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Don't apologize. It's not your fault. I don't even know what to do. The whole story is complicated and he cried and begged for me back and I just don't know. As stupid as it is, I still love him and I've forgiven him. I just don't know if I can trust him
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lost dreamer* · 1 decade ago
Ughh I hate when things like this happen to such great people who don't deserve it in the slightest :/ when you say you forgave him, do you mean you took him back? Cause idk, I feel like it would benefit you to separate yourself for a little bit to see what he does to determine if it's worth giving it another shot and kinda gather yourself together more, Just please try not to put yourself down too much over this; it was him dumb judgement, and that does not mean you were not good enough. That's the thing with long distance, people will be tempted by people they are actually with, but that is NOT your fault, so don't beat yourself up too much over it, please.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I'm trying not to. And I'm giving myself some time. I think I want him back, but I wanna see if he'll wait a bit for me. I know right now he'strying harder than ever to get my trust back and his friend contacted me without him knowing to tell me the same story he told me. It doesn't even seem like it's his fault. I'm just so confused
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lost dreamer* · 1 decade ago
Yeah I think that's a good idea - give it some time. And it does sound like he really does like you and the whole thing was just an unintentional mess so idk.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Yeah. The situation is complicated. He could've avoided it but in a sense it wasn't his fault. I'm just so confused, so I'm gonna wait
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lost dreamer* · 1 decade ago
Good choice(:
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Thanks girl :3
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bella92008 · 1 decade ago
im sorry, love. i know it hurts. but obviously you deserve better. just don't forget to keep a smile on your face as much as possible. c:
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Thanks. I'm trying. It just hurts too much
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dapz95 · 1 decade ago
im so so sorry
what happened?
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
He cheated on me and now I'm left shattering and falling apart
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dapz95 · 1 decade ago
I'm sorry. I'm guessing you don't want to talk about it - with him - at all?
Well, watching Rachel Green'es terrible track record (friends <3) with some comfort ben and jerry may not make it better, but it helps you remember how to smile :) and i'm sorry again. I'll find you some music ^-^
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
We've been talking since then. He keeps apologizing but I can't do a relationship with no trust. And I'll try. Thanks love
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dapz95 · 1 decade ago
of course you can't. why would you set yourself up for another heartbreak when your old one is still in pieces? I understand - you have every right to feel the way you do.
stay strong, lovely. you have many many more people than you know behind you <3 and you'll get through this. really. you will x
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Thanks love. I'm trying. Thanks <3
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