Idk who needs to hear this but...if you’re thinking about giving up, remember in 2 years you could be marrying someone you haven’t met yet. In 2 years you could have a job at a company you haven’t heard of that makes you happy. In 2 years you could be on your way to buying a home you never thought you could afford. In 2 seconds could be happy again. In 20 years you could be watching your kids growing up. But you’ll never know unless you get there. If you want to give up don’t. Take a nap. Gather yourself and remember it’s a bad time not a bad life, you’ll get through this.
Beautiful girl, when you are finished falling, after you hit rock bottom and watch yourself come apart into a million pieces, no one is staying to help you collect yourself, no one is sticking around to pick through your pieces to decide which parts of you are worth keeping. That’s for you to decide. So stay down for as long as you need to. This is the most important part. Take your time. Pay attention. You already broke. So the easy part is over. Go slow.... I know, you thought the breaking was the most painful chapter. It wasn’t. Turn the page. The next part is much longer. It’s the healing. The rise. The comeback. It’s the birth of the new you. And it’s not easy. But you are strong and brave and worth it. You’ll have to leave a lot of yourself behind, you’ll have to let go of all the parts of you that you’ve outgrown. We’re not making ourselves small anymore. We’re not bending to fit where we don’t belong anymore. Do you hear me? We’re going all in. Count your wounds, every scar ripped open, every drop of blood you bled like a promise, every tear you cried like a bet in the name of crossing your whole heart, your whole soul, was all for this moment. Right here. Right now. You had to hurt like that to get here to this version of you who knows exactly who she is, who she’s not, who she will never be again. Drop the apologies, babe. We’re not sorry anymore for who we are, we’re not sorry for what we had to do to get here, and we’re not sorry for the time it took to learn our worth. Step out of the box of all you were supposed to be, according to everyone who wasn’t you, and walk into the you, who’s comfortable in her own skin. It’s time. You earned it. We no longer wear the expectations of anyone else and we no longer let anyone else decide what we’re worth. Because we know now. We finally know. And now it’s time to celebrate it. Get up, babe. It does not hurt anymore. Now go show YOU what you’re made of.
What Would Your Life Be Like With No Regrets? Let me ask you, if your life ended tomorrow what would you regret not doing? What would you regret not saying? We all have things we wish we would have done at some point in our life. We all have wished to be something more. To have done something more. And that’s the problem, we wish. We wish for the things that never came easy to us. We wish for life to have handed us the things we longed for. We wish and never receive because we are not proactive. We do not put in enough effort to make our desires a reality. A beautiful life does not come with no cost. A meaningful life does not come with no pain. Your life is designed and built with all you have endured. It is built with your accomplishments, with your failures, and with your fears. Your life is the outcome of your willingness to meet vulnerability with dedication. Your life is the sum of the experiences you let yourself experience. If tomorrow was the end, the things you are going to regret are the things that you never let yourself do. The things you are going to regret are the words you never let yourself say. The things you are going to regret are going to be the places you never let yourself go to. You will regret not allowing yourself to be worthy of living the life you have always pictured. You will regret not seizing every opportunity life threw at you. You will regret living with regrets. So, when tomorrow comes, start everything you have said you would have started and make a plan to conquer every evil that resides in your head, because you are the single biggest influence in your life, and whether you flounder or flourish is in your hands.
She is holding on, but barely. Gripping whatever she can to keep it together for another day. She doesn't think about next week or next month, just today. That's what she tells herself. That's how she's gone this long. Just keep it together, Today.
One thing I absoluetly love and adore about myself is, no matter how bad i've been treated, no matter how i'm feeling, no matter what i've been through or what i'm going through, I still have a heart of gold and endless love to give. That's one thing no one can ever take from me.
You think you’ve seen her naked because she took her clothes off? Tell me about her dreams. Tell me what breaks her heart. What is she passionate about, and what makes her cry? Tell me about her childhood. Better yet, tell me one story about her that you’re not in.You’ve seen her skin, and you’ve touched her body. But you still know as much about her as a book you once found, but never got around to opening.
"Every scar, every wound, every ache inside of you is a story. And stories are the wildest, most powerful things of all. Because stories can build galaies or make entire universes break and bleed and fall." - Nikita Gill, You Are Made of Stories
"Some people will let you down and never will you forget how they made you feel. Some people will break your heart and never will you have the opportunity to see it coming. And some people will forever stay in your heart and never will you be able to explain why."
The reality behind a broken person is that they look okay when they are around you. They laugh and even crack their own joke. They wear the most beautiful smile and constantly encourages you to be happy. But when the night comes and they are all alone. All they do is stare at the dark corners of their room while they fight the demons in their head. Fighting those negative thoughts all alone is never easy. So do not ever judge someone because they cry, because they are brave. Brave enough to withstand everything even with that tear stained face💕
One day, you can't hold on to it anymore. You don'tknow but you feel shattered and then you burst intotears. Your head and chest and eyes andeverything hurts. Everything feels numb andsurrendered. It's as if you're done. You've givenup. You're done for. You can't take it anymore andyou cry and scream silently as you cover yourmouth to stop your sobs and the suffocatinginhalation and you break down. You fall to theground because your legs cannot take the load ofyour imperfections. You close your eyes, let thetears fall, hug yourself and stand up.
Did you ever fall for someone you know you shouldn't?Try hard to fight your feelings, but you just couldn't?You fall deeper with each passing day,But try to hide it in every possible way.He's only a friend, and nothing else--That's the lie you keeping telling yourself.You keep on saying he's just a bud,But deep inside, you're falling in love.You get so giddy when you meet his eyes,But keep reminding yourself it isn't right.A simple glance turns into a stare,But you pretned that you don't care.It's "not right" for you two to be.Is that why you hide it so no one can see?But how long will you pretend?Keep lying that he's just a friend?Perhaps your feelings you can never show.Perhaps it's "wrong" for him to know.Your friendship can't be risked over this,So being his girl is an impossible wish...
Dear girl who's been replaced, Just because he's already with a new girl, that doesn't mean you should feel like you've been replaced because the truth is it's impossible to replace you. He might think she's prettier than you, he might think her personality is better than yours, and he might think he's more compatible with that girl than he was with you, but don't let him take away how special you are in your own way, how unique you are in your own right, and how amazing you are in your own light. You shouldn't look at her and feel ugly, you shouldn't compare yourself to her and feel like you aren't good enough, and you shouldn't see how he loves her and hate yourself for it. He might not be able to see what you're worth, but you should know what you worth. He might not be able to recognize your value, but you should be able to recognize what your value is. He might not be able to realize what you deserve, but you should be able to give yourself what you deserve. Sure, he's already with another girl, but that doesn't mean you have to already be with another guy, too. Right now is the time for you to find yourself and pick up the pieces of yourself that were left broken by him. You don't need to be worrying about guys, let alone one who doesn't care about you anymore. I know you're feeling vulnerable, but don't be so quick to fall for the next guy who's there for you because you aren't ready to be with someone at the moment. If he's already happy because of another girl, good for him. He's no longer your problem. He's her problem. Let her deal with what kind of guy he truly is when she eventually finds out. Just focus on yourself, do you, and eventually you'll be the reason why you're happy.