I originally posted this on my
Facebook about 2 months ago, and due to several people wanting me
to post it here, that's what I'm doing. This is my basic
philosophy on life, and despite the length, I promise that
it's worth reading.
I feel like there are some people in this world who take other
people for granted too much and don't understand what it
means when someone truly cares about them. Now, I understand that
you would cut someone out of your life if all they ever did was
hurt you emotionally and disappoint you. But what I definitely
don't agree with is closing yourself off to almost everyone,
including people who actually care about you and want to get to
know you, just because of the experiences that you've had
with the wrong people in the past. There is still such a thing as
a person who genuinely cares about the people they associate
with. I'm living proof that those kinds of people still
exist. Not everyone you ever meet is going to take advantage of
you. Some people genuinely care about how you feel and want to
see you be happy and will do a lot of things to help you with
being happy. But if you're too close-minded to realize that,
you're gonna end up hurting yourself whether you realize it
or not, by missing out on getting close with someone who is
extremely loyal to people they care about and would always be
there for you. That's the type of person that I am when
I'm close with someone. If we get to know each other,
you're risking literally nothing, because once we're
close I'll never abandon you. And it's not like I'm
the only person who has this extreme level of loyalty to people.
There are some bad people in this world who only care about their
own feelings, but if you judge everyone because of the wrong
people you've associated with before, your mind isn't
opened enough. And you'll make things way worse if you push
away people who actually want you to be happy. You're hurting
people who try to help you, and you're hurting yourself by
not letting them help you. I know that it definitely hurts me
when I get pushed away by people when I try to help them be
happy. Don't do that to people, because someday you'll
push them away and then you might just end up losing them
forever. You don't need to live a life where you constantly
worry about people using you, taking advantage of you, abandoning
you, etc., as long as you trust the correct people. And just
because I'm a trustworthy and caring person, it doesn't
mean that I'm weak. It means that I'm mature enough to
have empathy for people and not do things to them that I would
hate to have done to me. I try to make other people happy because
being happy is the main purpose of life, and life is way too
short to not be happy. And I'm not the only person in the
world who thinks this way, either. So, if you read all of this,
then no matter who you are, I hope that it's made you think
about how much you open yourself up to people who care, and I
also hope that if you have issues doing that, it won't be so
hard for you anymore. Some people don't care, but you just
have to find the ones who actually do, and they're the only
ones who you'll ever truly need. And if someone decides to
care about you when they don't even need to, you should feel
special and you should be grateful enough about it to at least
care about them, too. Those people who just refuse to give up on
you no matter what happens are the people who you need in your
life whether you think so or not.
Irene* · 1 decade ago
Seriously I loved every word of this *-* I couldn't agree more with you!Even though I am that type of person that sometimes doesn't talk to people because I think they're taking advantage of me,now I see how wrong I was.
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