Kittyatethehuman · 1 decade ago
Be careful. You have to remember, older guys can get what they want, I should know. Yes, I was in the 8th grade, dating a guy overaged guy that was in the 11th grade, that was a stupid drunk who loved weed. I think I might just have the different experience though.
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
haha i think so too, but hes never drank, never smoked, or done anything bad without a reasonable explanation. (like hes been in fights before but it was all either self defense or people being "bullies" or whatever ahah) and he would never pressure me into anything i dont want to do, and i know even if he did that im smart enough to walk away c: thanks for the feedback c: xx
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Kittyatethehuman · 1 decade ago
No problem, I hope all goes well :3
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nanilla143 · 1 decade ago
I'm a girl in 11th dating a guy in 9th grade, you'll get for it yeah but it's worth it
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
yeah, i know someone in my grade who is also dating an 11th grader, and they get crap about it but they've been together for almost two years and are incredibly cute together, and thanks for the feedback c: xx
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iloveeitt · 1 decade ago
do it just be careful
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
i will be, and he understands that im younger, thank you for the feedback c: xx
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deep_like_the_ocean · 1 decade ago
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
he does, and im going to talk to him about it too. but hes mature and respects me, and knows that im younger, and i would never do anything i would regret. thanks for the feedback xx
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LightbulbsRock · 1 decade ago
bloody well go for it. I well be disappoint if you don't xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
Haha I am, thank youu c: xx
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Karlijnn · 1 decade ago
Well, if it makes you happy, you should do it. On the other hand: the guy is almost a grown up (well, sorta xD), like lovecrazy said...
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
haha, i know. but it really doesnt feel like hes that much older; i think im mature for my age and everything, i just wish my parents would give it a chance o:
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
There's no problem with it, as long as you know him well. I assume you're the 8th grade girl, so best of luck to the both of you.
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
thank you(: and yes, hahah c:
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
Soo I don't know you, but tell me about him 'cause it seems like you like him a lot:)
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
He rides my bus & lives right down the street from me, and we would flirt on the bus like all the time and he just told me he liked me yesterday, and says all these really sweet things and makes me really happy. He wanted to hangout with me today, but my parents aren't letting me :c
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
Aw:( Do your parents know the boy?
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
no, they dont be hes actually a great kid. his friend's dad is a cop and even says hes a great kid. i feel like my parents just arent giving him a chance, and not letting me see him just based on the age difference/:
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
That sucks, I'm so sorry. Would you be willing to lie to your parents though? To see him, I mean?
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
yes.. my parents are extremely over protective and wouldn't just let me leave the house, but Monday im going to tell my mom that im staying a "late night" which is just when you stay after school to do extra work or to stay caught up with your teachers, but im not staying after & im going to hangout with him after school then, since theres like no other way i can see him..
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
Aw well that's nice, aside from the fact that you're lying to your parents, but I mean who hasn't done that? Does he know what's happening with your parents?
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
Yes, he hates being judged but they're not trying to judge him.. I don't know. It's what they think is best but I hate it/:
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
You could ask them to meet him, I guess.
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
They will, I started dating him today and I'm just really happy, I just wish my parents would accept it.
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
They'll have to eventually. I don't know you, but call me and tell me when the wedding's at.
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EjSweet2 · 1 decade ago
Just depends if he accepts that she is younger and shouldn't do 11th grade stuff...
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Cookiemonster99 · 1 decade ago
if by "11th grade stuff" you mean having s.ex or anything like that, i would never do something like that or let it get that far, and i dont think he would try to push me into anything i dont want anyways. hes really not like that and even if he is, i wouldnt stay with him if he tried to pressure me or push me into anything. he does accept that im younger and respects me for who i am, the only problem is my parents. my mom is 5 years younger than my dad and i know its totally different when your older and out of school, but 3 years isnt even that big of a gap in my opinion. i respect everyones opinions and thanks to everyone that commented ^-^ c;
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Smiles_Mustaches · 1 decade ago
Lol. I'm the only one that doesn't see anything wrong with it.
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Smiles_Mustaches · 1 decade ago
My mom went to senior prom with an 12th grader when she was in 8th. I don't see a problem with it. I don't think age measures anything except how long you've been alive and how big of a birthday present you get.
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lovecrazy · 1 decade ago
My opinion on this? No, I don't. He's older, more mature, he knows how to make you believe something. The girl on the other hand is still a child, she doesn't really know what's going on. Being friends is one thing, but dating I just don't think that's a good idea right now.
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almostthere · 1 decade ago
Don't date in middle school your life has barely started. It won't last a while-a month at best. And it'll be awkward when you get to high school
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