KiwiNinja17 · 1 decade ago
first of all i would like to apologize... you see a long time ago people in the seventh-ninth grades would cherish their youth, yes they would date (oh young love) and were somewhat nice to those whom had done nothing wrong... then one day the class of 2015 (my class... this years current freshmen) came along and they decided... "Hey, i got an idea when we get into seventh grade we r going to screw everything up instead of it being a few people that are mean... how about we make it 99% that way, the decent people have a hard time finding real friends and decent guys.. oh and when they find these guys we will make fun of them bcuz even tho dating someone older may be the same age difference, we dont care" sorry about that. lol but really thats what happened just hang in there in sorry to say that high school might not be much better but like i said hang in there ur one of the better people :) if u wanna talk even if it not about this u just wanna vent im here :) and sorry for the length i just got a little carried away and i had to explain it. :)
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Harley91594 · 1 decade ago
Stay away from them, they're first classes biitches. Age is not that important because one year is not a big difference! I'm a high school junior and some of the guys I like are freshman. And my friend is a junior, she's dating a sophomore and they're the cutest damn couple ever! Be happy with your boyfriend, he's loyal!
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iloveyou99babe · 1 decade ago
i'm dating a 7th grader and i'm in 8th grade, i read that first sentence and thought "i need to comment ." i know exactly what you mean, my grade is the same way. Full of immature guys that make me sick, half the girls complain about society but they're some of the most judgemental people i've talked to. I've surrounded myself with some of the cruel people and its hard to get aawy. None of them are perfect, even the prettiest of the girls lie. I personally think it's difficult to find a true bestfriend these days. I'm glad that you've found one, i'm not suprised it's a guy. Guys can tend to be stupid but you may have found a gentlemen. Good luck to you. I'm most deffinitely here fror you. Your story sounds easy to relate too. Stay strong!
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craziirose · 1 decade ago
Ignore those losers! Just only care about your own opinions in life! They are not going to get anywhere is life so let them be the way they are..on the path to nowhere. People probably talked behind my back but I don't even know because I don't care! If you want to care, you'll feel horrible. Surround yourself with the people who make you feel perfect. Be strong!♥
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samninja11 · 1 decade ago
stay strong and i am a stranger but if you need to rant or just talk im here for you<3
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InOneMoment · 1 decade ago
they don't MAKE you. you can be strong and rise above all that crap.
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BebeCutie99 · 1 decade ago
Omg I can so relate, people call me fake all the time, but NEVER to my face. Stay strong beautiful &hearts;
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summerbabe101 · 1 decade ago
thanks, you too.
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tatertotz7 · 1 decade ago
im here to talk if you need. have a good night
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summerbabe101 · 1 decade ago
i'll deffinitaley keep that in mind.
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tatertotz7 · 1 decade ago
im here to give you a reality check and i really hope you understand. sorry for the multiple comments, wittys flippin out. if they talk, they talk. acting one way or another wont stop them. might as well do it your way. you be in control of yourself because youre letting them control you
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tatertotz7 · 1 decade ago
and im not gonna be on here trying to sugar coat everything with "oh how terrible thayre jerks but take care of yourself because youre beautiful! <3" im trying to give you a reality check and im just hoping youll understand
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summerbabe101 · 1 decade ago
but being myself will make them talk even more crap then they already do.
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tatertotz7 · 1 decade ago
but its NOT ok to cut and youre just showing everyone that they can tear you down. i dont expect you to be able to ignore them because you just cant usually. but stop letting them control how you think and think/act for yourself.
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summerbabe101 · 1 decade ago
but how can i just ignore the people that call me names, or the names in general? It's things like that, that make me think it's okay to cut. and trust me, i know.. i almost lost my reaaally good friend because she ODed.
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tatertotz7 · 1 decade ago
i know it feels like nobody understands, but i think we've all pretty much gone through the hurt of friends and betrayal and drama and name calling. some people get a lot worse and you should be grateful. trust me i used to hate when people said crap like that, but i mean really. i finally got it. please just read this with an open mind because i try and try and nobody ever listens to me. i just want you to realize that your reasoning right now is not the best and even though i understand i really wish the best for you! this kills me trying to talk people out of doing these things but nobody will open their minds. please
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tatertotz7 · 1 decade ago
14 years old is still too young. i may not know your story but i know for a FACT that millions of people have it worse. and yeah, i got called names too and guess what, i didnt have any friends like you do. not one. teenagers tend to think that just because something is going wrong, their life is going nowhere. you may not think your life is precious, but you hav no idea how it would affect the people around you. one of my friends brothers killed himself this year. and it was terrible. i never said you cut for attention and i dont believe that. but it is not other peoples fault for your actions. im telling you when you realize what youre doing, then youll be able to change it. my life is definitely not holding hands singing kumbiah either, but i look ahead and think you know what, things get better. there IS a life after high school. those scars may or may not last forever, but its up to YOU to decide whether youll make more of them.
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summerbabe101 · 1 decade ago
lady of the night.. w.h.o.r.e
woman.. b.i.t.c.h.
stuff.. s.h.i.t.
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summerbabe101 · 1 decade ago
first of all i'm 14. and you don't know half my story okay? I get called fat and a on a daily bases. You do not know how hard it is to sit there and listen to everyone about it. My life is not precious. that YOLO , okay? We're not gathering around a campfire holding hands singing kumbia, this is real. I dont cut for attention. Do you really believe that? I posted this to vent, not to get simpithy. I don't care if 500+ people say, "oh it'll get better" i just wanted to say it so people know how i feel, how i hate my school. I want people to know me and i don't give a . You say it won't last forever but these scars will, k?
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tatertotz7 · 1 decade ago
first of all, they dont make you do those things to yourself. theyre your choices. onc e you take responsibility then maybe you can change these things. second, killing yourself over 8th grade drama? do you even think that SOUNDS reasonable? ok i get that it sucks but you need to learn to see past the present and realize that this little junior high crap wont last forever, and is seriously not a big enough deal to do all of these things to yourself. i know youre young but you need to think things through and realize that youre blowing things way out of proportion. this crap (which isnt nearly as bad as a LOT of people have it) is not worth taking away your precious life or cutting or starving. its ridiculous. im not writing this whole paragraph to get you mad at me, or start a fight, im truely not. im trying to help. i wouldnt waste my time if i didnt care. but you need to open your 12-13 year old eyes because this is not reasonable no matter how you try to justify it, its pathetic 8th grade problems that GO AWAY. dont even get me started on those people that treat you like that either, but complaining about them wont do anything so im worried about you right now
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