Advice for Guys:
Getting outta the "friendzone"
There are 4 reasons girls friendzone. In order to get out of one, you have to figure out which category you fall in.
1. She doesn't like you.
If this is the case, then the girl will avoid contact with you. She won't answer most of your messages or calls. She will make up excuses when you ask her out. If this happens, then the best thing you can do is give her some space. Constantly contacting her, or hanging out with her will annoy her and she could even end up hating you. But, if you give her some space while being nice to her. She will consider being with you because after personality wins over everything.
2. She likes someone else.
This is probably the most difficult one to get out of, if she likes someone else. She won't even consider being with you. However, it's not impossible. Everything just depends on how serious her relationship is between this guy. If things are pretty serious, you should do your self a favor and move on. If not, then you should just be nice and again give her space. Don't annoy her. Girls usually go for what they can't get, so play hard to get with out being mean. Basically, act like her brother.
3. She's afraid
If you are like Cassanova and have dated several girls, then don't expect to come out of the friendzone so quickly. We girls, pay atention to the way you have treated other girls and if you were a jerk we're not going to date you. We want someone who will be true to us and if you weren't true to your 13 girl friends, then why should we beileve that you'll be true to us? So, in order to make her beileve that you really do like her; you have to treat her like you would have your dad treat your mom. Or how you would treat your sister. Be nice, don't push her. Give her time, let her come to you. This may take quite some time. Weeks, months, maybe years. All this depends on how much you like that girl, and on how much she likes you.
4. She doesn't know you like her
You see the thing with girls is, we don't ask if you like us. We will try to figure it out according to what you say, and how you say it and if you don't say anything regarding us, we will assume you are indifferent towards us. If this is the case, then we will never tell you that we like you. We will just be your friend until you pull a move. So my advice is; give her a hint instead of coming out and telling her. Send her flowers, say sweet things. Watch movies with her, hug her, hold her hand. The idea is to show her you love her instead of saying it.
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