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Maria_Advice

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Member Since: 1 Sep 2013 05:04pm

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Maria
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I love to give out advice. I don't judge and I will always help people as much as I can. I have an ask.fm page and also a twitter page. I have my own witty page. But I wanted to make an advice one to help people with.


 

Ask.fm advice page: http://ask.fm/MariaAdvice
Twitter advice (I follow back so you can DM me): http://twitter.com/Maria_Advice

 

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  1. Maria_Advice Maria_Advice
    posted a quote
    October 27, 2013 6:25am UTC
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    Love is about accepting others for who they are
    and making sacrifices for them.
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    format by: presentatiecharly.blogspot.co.uk

  2. Maria_Advice Maria_Advice
    posted a quote
    October 19, 2013 1:21pm UTC
    Need advice?
    ask.fm/MariaAdvice

  3. Maria_Advice Maria_Advice
    posted a quote
    September 7, 2013 8:17am UTC
    You are human, you can do amazing things. You smile to hide your tears and sadness? People call your names, such as worthless, coward, ugly, stupid and fat? You cry yourself to sleep every night? Yes, I know how it feels. But darling don't give up, don't let them win the fight. Cause in life there will always be obstacles but you have to believe that you can beat them. Because in everything they say you have got to believe they're wrong, they have to be wrong. Because maybe you are different, but that doesn't mean you aren't human and that you're not beautiful. Look in the mirror longer, you are the one person on earth that will ever look and act like you. Don't waste time wishing you were someone else, wishing you were this perfect girl that goes to your school. Instead look at yourself and be happy that you are you, live life to the fullest, create, inspire, imagine. Search for your dreams and aim high, cause once you believe you will be able to do anything. Don't blame yourself for who you are, be proud that you have been made this way. Live life with regrets and if you do make a mistake don't worry, cause with mistakes you learn, and you become someone better. Don't give up now, you might not think anyone cares, but I care, your family, your friends, teachers so many people care. You have gotten this far, don't give up now, cause your life isn't a waste and it never will be. Imagine how your parents would feel if they called your name, but you didn't answer, and once they went in the room to check on you would be layed there, not a single breath would come out of you, you mum would be sat there, shaking your body begging you to wake up, crying. Your dad finds out and feels bad, he feels like he was never a good enough parent to you. Your sibling (if you have any) would know that they would never see you again and probably start cutting and fall into depression. The teacher that tried to make you work a little more harder because they knew that you would have a brighter and better future, they would feel guilty and probably end up quitting their jobs. Your best friend wouldn't know what to do, she would feel horrible for not realizing what was going on, fall to the ground and cry, knowing that she will never see you again. The popular girls would never forget the words that they said to you, and would live with the guilt forever.The boys that would tease you wouldn't know what to do, and live with the regret of never actually telling you how beautiful you actually are in their eyes. You can't give up now, because you may not feel like you're important, but you are, you have the chance and the power to makes someones day, to be there for someone, and someday, you would find someone who would do the same to you. Please, don't give up now.

  4. Maria_Advice Maria_Advice
    posted a quote
    September 1, 2013 7:10pm UTC
    Self Harm.‎
    Hey guys! Maria here! I know lots of people that have self harmed, and a few of the people who follow my ask have already talked about self harming to me. However, many people think self harm is for attention and many do not understand it completely, so I have decided to write a little explaining what self harming is.
    Self harming is a way of expressing and dealing with deep distress and emotional pain. To some people, hurting yourself makes you feel better. In fact, in some cases, you may feel like you have no choice. Self harming sometimes seems like the only way you can cope with feelings like, sadness, emptiness, guilt, and rage.
    The problem is that the relief that comes out of Self Harming doesn't last very long. Its like 'slapping on a Band-Aid when what you really need are stitches.' It may temporarily stop the bleeding, but it doesn’t fix the underlying injury. And it also creates its own problems. Most self harmers try to keep it a secret. Sometimes they feel, ashamed or maybe think that no one will understand. However hiding it can also cause a problem, the secrecy and guilt affects your relationships with your friends and family members and the way you feel about yourself. It can make you feel even more lonely, worthless, and trapped.
    If you self harm and wish to stop here are some tips.
    -To stop cutting you will really have the dedication towards it and also believe in your self and that you can do it. Tell yourself, "I need to stop self harming." Say it out loud if you need to, say it as many times until you believe it.
    -Identify. When you have the urge to self harm, stop for a minute and think, why do you want to self harm. Once you have identified what it is making you feel like self harming, put down the object (rasor, sissors, ect) and talk to someone who you know will care about it, be it, Me, your mum, dad, sibling ect. Talk about whats happening, how its making you feel, let it all out.
    -Find a different way, do something that also brings out relief. Go for a run or walk. Talk to a friend. Listen to music (make sure its uplifting music, something that wont make you more upset). Write in a dairy. Take a long bath or shower. Express your feelings into something that you're good at such as : Writing music, drawing what you feel, dancing your feelings, ect. Do whatever you love to do, I am sure it will feel a whole lot better than cutting.
    -Sometimes you might still feel the urge to self harm. When you feel like this, and doing something nice, or talking to someone doesn't hurt. Try giving yourself harmless pain. Harmless pain means you'll still get the same feeling as cutting or self harming, however it wont leave marks or harm you. Ways to do this includes: Eating a hot chilli, taking a cold shower, holding some ice cubes tightly (dye them red with food colouring if the sight of blood is important to you), or place elastic bands around your wrists, and snap your arm or wherever you usually cut at.

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