After a girl gets out of a
toxic
relationship, she's single for a long time. At first,
it's lonely in the
begining, it's hard.
For a little while it even
hurts. But after a certain amount of time, she
embraces being single
and finds it
empowering knowing that
she doesn't
need a man to be
happy. But
once a girl
gets
comfortable with being
single, it's
hard for her to be mentally
attracted to
anyone. Once a girl gets
familiar with
being on her own,
it's hard for her
to be emotionally connected to anyone. Once a girl gets
used to taking care of herself, it's
hard for her to be
dependent on anyone. The reason behind
that is, she's not trying
to go back to that dark
place she was in before,
she's not trying to
waste her time on a
guy who's
gonna turn out to be undeserving,
and she's
not trying to end up
with the
wrong one. She's spent a lot of time detoxifying herself and
finding herself again and the last thing
she needs is for another toxic
guy to come along and
cause her to lose herself
again. So yeah , it may
require extra attention, it may require effort , and
it may require time but
if you somehow manage to get her to not
want to be single anymore,
then you're
gonna get a girl
who's whole
again, who's
secure enough, and who's ready to love and
be loved
again.
akatsukiiprincess* · 5 months ago
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I feel every piece of this! Been single for just over 1.5 years and at this point I feel like I don’t even know how to meet people anymore.