Alexwise · 1 decade ago
Hey! Now look here missy, don't you dare go and do something silly. Things will get and plus we only just started talking, so you can't just leave now xxx
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fionarose · 1 decade ago
It wouldn't be silly... I'd be making an informed decision and going through with it. Things don't get better, all they've done is get worse.
Sorry sweetie... I'm only thinking about it at this stage anyway
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Alexwise · 1 decade ago
I understand everything, I've been where you are now, it's hard to control everything on your own. We are too young to be on our own but suicide is not the answer. You have to talk to him and convince him that you're the right choice again, he clearly still wants you, so just fight for him and don't give up xxx
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fionarose · 1 decade ago
It isn't just another high school break up, I mean we lived together for eight months, and we're supposed to be engaged but I left because I needed to work some things out and now he doesn't trust me. In all honesty he is literally the only reason I'm alive, and we can maybe be friends...
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Alexwise · 1 decade ago
Fight for the man you love. Have you explained why you left? I don't understand why he doesn't trust you, you didn't do anything unfaithful to him, the trust shouldn't be broken xx
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fionarose · 1 decade ago
I have- I had to deal with what happened in my last relationship and stop running from it, but it's too easy to keep running when I could see it hurt him almost as much as it was hurting me. And he can't understand because he hasn't been through it so it is hard on him. So how he can't trust me to not just leave because he didn't see it coming and doesn't know I won't just leave again.
And he can't trust me to not cheat if I'm with another guy apparently because I asked him if he would mind if I saw one of my guy friends then we broke up a few days later. He seems to think it's linked but it isn't
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Alexwise · 1 decade ago
But he can't just throw away months of being together. You got to get him back or you two won't be happy at all. You should show him your witty and show him that you won't leave him again. It's obvious that you are not coping at all. You know that your past relationship means nothing now an you want to focus on you and him, he's just being on the defensive because he doesn't want you go again. Show him that you won't leave. I'm sorry I couldn't be more help, just don't give up on him and yourself xx
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fionarose · 1 decade ago
And thank you for being here :)
I can't show him because I promised if he didn't take me back I wouldn't do anything stupid...
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fionarose · 1 decade ago
He can't get hurt like this again is why we can't get back together... even though he wants me back too..
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Alexwise · 1 decade ago
But you won't hurt him again. If you like leaving again, you should talk to him, so you two can work it out together
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fionarose · 1 decade ago
He doesn't see it that way... He also seems to think I tried to hurt him... so that's why I'm thinking about stupid things because it will show him that I'm hurting too and that I really do need him...
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Alexwise · 1 decade ago
I guess you'll have to beg for a second chance and promise him that you won't hurt him. He must know that you're hurting as much as you are
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fionarose · 1 decade ago
Mm... I'm thinking about it. But he told me that we're both better off moving on. We'll see what happens though

Hey, thank you so much for listening and giving me advice! If you want to talk I'm here
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xojesusfreedmexo · 1 decade ago
What's wrong boo?
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fionarose · 1 decade ago
My ex and I broke up a month ago (I broke up with him) and we both want each other back but he doesn't trust me to not leave again, so I'm planning on leaving everything. I've been thinking about it for a while and it'll hurt both of us less if I'm not here...
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xojesusfreedmexo · 1 decade ago
That's not true. You are absolutely gorgeous and seem so sweet. You were put on this earth for a reason. Put your hand under your left breast, feel that? Its called purpose.<3 talk to me anytime babe
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fionarose · 1 decade ago
It is true, and none of that means anything now. He was my purpose, my reason to get up in the mornings and my reason to stay in bed all day. If that makes sense. He was, and still is my everything but I screwed up and now there's no reason for me to be here anymore

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