when did this happen?
when did we stop wearing light up sneakers?
when did going to bed early become a good thing?
when did play dates turn into dates?
when did Dad stop being a superhero?
when did we start using labels?
when did weight stop determining what ride we could go on
               and start defining who we were?
when did we start looking in the mirror
              and not liking what we saw?
and when
            did our scars
                         become on purpose?