so i need some
advice,
my friend wants to get heer belly
button pierced and me and most of her other friends are against
her doing it. I'm afraid that one of her "friends"
is a really bad influence on her and I don't want to see her
change into something she's not. Also, I just think
there's no need for her to get her belly button pierced.
Anyone have any advice? (sam, if youre reading this, DO NOT
COMMENT, i already know your opinion)
1 faves · 1 comments · May 11, 2012 8:52pm
SheDreamer · 1 decade ago
i would advise you to express your concern in as loving a way as possible. explain to your friend that you care about her, and that's why you're concerned about her. say that you love her for who you are, and you're afraid that if she changes the two of you won't be friends anymore. be sure to mention that you value her friendship and that if she changes like this, you're afraid you'll be left behind.
and as for there being no need to get her belly button pierced, remember that it is her decision.
tell her of your concerns regarding the other "friend" and say that you're not gonna try and tell her what to do, you just would be very very sad if she got hurt.
that being said, ask her to carefully reconsider her decision and add that you'll support her and will want to be her friend no matter what happens.
hope this helps!
-SheDreamer
p.s.- let me know if you take any of my advice and how it goes with her. i'll be praying for you both. -SheDreamer
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