you tell her she is beautiful, she'll tell you " no i'm not ."  you tell her she isn't fat . she'll tell you " do you see this ?" you compliment her on her looks . she'll tell you "there's girls way better looking than me " do you know why she dosen't take your compliments? it isn't because she likes hearing it , or because she wants you to keep repeating it, but because she truly feels like she dosen't deserve the compliments being given to her . she knows her own flaws better than anyone else.,and they stand out to her more than anyone else. so when she looks at herself she dosen't she what these other people see....