carlisius
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1 decade ago
i would break up with your boyfriend, but if thats too scary right now, than maybe try going a week where you note down every time you think of your crush and every time you think of your boyfriend, whoever has the most thoughts at the end of the week wins. Or, if you want the experiment to really work, you could get your best friend to note down every time you say your crushes name and every time you say your boyfriends name for a few days. then count. its just an idea i actually have no idea. im only 13 :3 reply
Nightlock
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1 decade ago
first off, I'm sure your friends aren't sick of it. they probably really want to help you. i do too.
okay, so i almost know how you feel. there is a boy i like like that too. like, a super big crush, but sometimes i like other guys. its kinda like i always like him.
so idk what to do. maybe break it off with your boyfriend. tell him you need some time to think things through.
and if things aren't meant to be, they'll work out reply
VintageParis
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1 decade ago
Well, if you don't know about him, then it probably shouldn't be. Like that quote, "If you have to choose between me and her, choose her. That means you don't really love me." I don't know if that's true about you two, but it could be. If it was me, I would just want to stay friends with him
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xlonglivex
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1 decade ago
I feel your pain:) reply
Smiley_101
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1 decade ago
i have the exact opposite problem sometimes, guys are more easy going, and judge less, so maybe that's why, and the guys that you've tried talking to, are they crushes? because if so that changes pretty much everything. reply
kittycat4432
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1 decade ago
I agree with fight4you. BUT. Don't kiss him or do anything that will make you feel bad about leaving him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LEARNED THAT THE HARD WAY!!!!! reply
cheergirlxx418
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1 decade ago
definatly do it in person....just be like im sorry you're really sweet and you're great but i kind of like other people too and it isnt fair to you and we are better as friends......and if people bother you about it screw them its none of their buissness and your not being a b*tch at all reply
kittycat4432
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1 decade ago
Wow..... I was in the same situation. Small school and everything! What i did is I just broke up with him. Just went straight out and did it. Sure people were like "OMG WHY DID YOU DO THAT!!??" But it died down really fast. He ended up going out with my best friend who he absolutely hated just to make me jealous. I was at first. But then I told myself that he's just doing it to make you feel like "OMG, I am such a b*tch! What did I do?!" But he only does it to hurt you. In the end, they dated for two months before she broke up with him. So don't be afraid, just go for it. And what ever happens, happens. If you need any thing else, just comment on my profile. I'll help :) reply
fight4you
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1 decade ago
well definitly if you dont like him dont stay with him. i say right before he or you leaves on saturday break up with him. that way its fair that you did it in person and he has time to rebetter himself before he sees you again...thats wat i think reply
VintageParis
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1 decade ago
The best advice I can give is to just breakup but be nice about it. Just tell him that it isn't working out between you two and that you don't ever talk. Things will be awkward cause that's how it always is, and people are always gonna ask, but that's just part of it. reply
foreverme1331
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1 decade ago
guys like you cass! youre freaking gorgeous they dont say it to your face because they are worried that youre gonna turn them down and boys dont do well with rejection. just keep your head up and one day u will find him reply
foreverme1331
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1 decade ago
dont brake up with him just for this guy^^^ though reply
foreverme1331
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1 decade ago
YAY! IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! and go abby! ;) reply
rosesarebeautifullikeyou · 1 decade ago
<3
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carlisius · 1 decade ago
i would break up with your boyfriend, but if thats too scary right now, than maybe try going a week where you note down every time you think of your crush and every time you think of your boyfriend, whoever has the most thoughts at the end of the week wins. Or, if you want the experiment to really work, you could get your best friend to note down every time you say your crushes name and every time you say your boyfriends name for a few days. then count. its just an idea i actually have no idea. im only 13 :3
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Nightlock · 1 decade ago
first off, I'm sure your friends aren't sick of it. they probably really want to help you. i do too.
okay, so i almost know how you feel. there is a boy i like like that too. like, a super big crush, but sometimes i like other guys. its kinda like i always like him.
so idk what to do. maybe break it off with your boyfriend. tell him you need some time to think things through.
and if things aren't meant to be, they'll work out
reply
VintageParis · 1 decade ago
Well, if you don't know about him, then it probably shouldn't be. Like that quote, "If you have to choose between me and her, choose her. That means you don't really love me." I don't know if that's true about you two, but it could be. If it was me, I would just want to stay friends with him
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xlonglivex · 1 decade ago
I feel your pain:)
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Smiley_101 · 1 decade ago
i have the exact opposite problem sometimes, guys are more easy going, and judge less, so maybe that's why, and the guys that you've tried talking to, are they crushes? because if so that changes pretty much everything.
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kittycat4432 · 1 decade ago
I agree with fight4you. BUT. Don't kiss him or do anything that will make you feel bad about leaving him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LEARNED THAT THE HARD WAY!!!!!
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cheergirlxx418 · 1 decade ago
definatly do it in person....just be like im sorry you're really sweet and you're great but i kind of like other people too and it isnt fair to you and we are better as friends......and if people bother you about it screw them its none of their buissness and your not being a b*tch at all
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mznicolerose · 1 decade ago
I'm Liam :)
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LetMe · 1 decade ago
Let me tell you about Jesus.
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rosesarebeautifullikeyou · 1 decade ago
woman= b*tch
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kittycat4432 · 1 decade ago
Wow..... I was in the same situation. Small school and everything! What i did is I just broke up with him. Just went straight out and did it. Sure people were like "OMG WHY DID YOU DO THAT!!??" But it died down really fast. He ended up going out with my best friend who he absolutely hated just to make me jealous. I was at first. But then I told myself that he's just doing it to make you feel like "OMG, I am such a b*tch! What did I do?!" But he only does it to hurt you. In the end, they dated for two months before she broke up with him. So don't be afraid, just go for it. And what ever happens, happens. If you need any thing else, just comment on my profile. I'll help :)
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fight4you · 1 decade ago
well definitly if you dont like him dont stay with him. i say right before he or you leaves on saturday break up with him. that way its fair that you did it in person and he has time to rebetter himself before he sees you again...thats wat i think
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VintageParis · 1 decade ago
The best advice I can give is to just breakup but be nice about it. Just tell him that it isn't working out between you two and that you don't ever talk. Things will be awkward cause that's how it always is, and people are always gonna ask, but that's just part of it.
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rosesarebeautifullikeyou · 1 decade ago
awww<3 Thank you Mere!!!! (: <3
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InOneMoment · 1 decade ago
you never have to sink down to that level. you are so beautiful!
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rosesarebeautifullikeyou · 1 decade ago
oh, I know, don't worry!!
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foreverme1331 · 1 decade ago
guys like you cass! youre freaking gorgeous they dont say it to your face because they are worried that youre gonna turn them down and boys dont do well with rejection. just keep your head up and one day u will find him
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foreverme1331 · 1 decade ago
dont brake up with him just for this guy^^^ though
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foreverme1331 · 1 decade ago
YAY! IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! and go abby! ;)
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