I Love You.
Millions of people long to say these words to someone.
Anyone.
And when they get in a relationship, they say it almost immediately.
Sometimes in as short a time as two days.
After that, the relationship falls apart, and they are left with nothing.
Thats when all the comments and beliefs about "Love Sucks" and how nothing good can come from love start appearing.
What most people dont realize is that love did nothing wrong.
It was the person who used those words,"I Love You" prematurely.
Now, for most people its not their fault, even though they were the ones to first utter those words, they could not hlp it.
They wanted love. They wanted what love represents. They want the strong relatioship, the full connection, the feeling of being in love. Thats what they wanted.
What they dont realize is that, if you throw all your cards out onto the table at the very beginning of the game, your bound to lose.
Why?
Well, think of it this way.
A deck of cards is your relationship. You have two's, three's, four's, all the way up to Aces. The Ace is Love. If you throw out your aces to early in the game, there will be non left in the deck, and since there is nothing better than an Ace, You will eventually lose. Keep that Ace in reserve. Use it when the timing is exactly right. You will win the game.
The trouble is that most people think that to have love, all they have to do is say it.
What they dont realize is that the other person involved comes along with those words, and that the words themselves bare a great responsibility and loyalty to that other person.
In a nutshell, the thing you have to ask yourself is this.
Are you in love with your partner? TRUE Love?
Or,
Are you just in love with the idea OF love?
Unless you can answer that question without a shadow of a doubt, Dont say those words.
Ok, Really sorry this was such a long quote guys, There is a whole lot to be said on this subject, and this only touched the tip of the ice burg.
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