I Love
You.
Millions of people long to say these words to someone.
Anyone.
And when they get in a relationship, they say it almost
immediately.
Sometimes in as short a time as two days.
After that, the relationship falls apart, and they are left with
nothing.
Thats when all the comments and beliefs about "Love
Sucks" and how nothing good can come from love start
appearing.
What most people dont realize is that love did nothing wrong.
It was the person who used those words,"I Love You"
prematurely.
Now, for most people its not their fault, even though they were the
ones to first utter those words, they could not hlp it.
They wanted love. They wanted what love represents. They want the
strong relatioship, the full connection, the feeling of being in
love. Thats what they wanted.
What they dont realize is that, if you throw all your cards out
onto the table at the very beginning of the game, your bound to
lose.
Why?
Well, think of it this way.
A deck of cards is your relationship. You have two's,
three's, four's, all the way up to Aces. The Ace is Love.
If you throw out your aces to early in the game, there will be non
left in the deck, and since there is nothing better than an Ace,
You will eventually lose. Keep that Ace in reserve. Use it when the
timing is exactly right. You will win the game.
The trouble is that most people think that to have love, all they
have to do is say it.
What they dont realize is that the other person involved comes
along with those words, and that the words themselves bare a great
responsibility and loyalty to that other person.
In a nutshell, the thing you have to ask yourself is this.
Are you in love with your partner? TRUE Love?
Or,
Are you just in love with the idea OF love?
Unless you can answer that question without a shadow of a doubt,
Dont say those words.
Ok, Really sorry this was such a long
quote guys, There is a whole lot to be said on this subject, and
this only touched the tip of the ice
burg.
I Love You. Millions of people long to say these words to someone.
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