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September 21, 2012 9:32pm UTC

When a guy breaks up with a girl (like he ends it. she doesn't) how does he feel when he sees his ex being happy without him?
It depends on what situation he's in... He may feel jealous if he's still single. But if he has a girlfriend again then he won't exactly care...
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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ask_a_dude
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September 18, 2012 6:00pm UTC

Sorry everyone, I'm not really in the best of moods, so if my advice obviously isn't well thought out, that would be why.

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ask_a_dude
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September 18, 2012 5:55pm UTC

"He has a girlfriend and he saw my note explaining everything and he said he smiled when he saw it but he never said yes or no to my question.What should I do?"
Go up and ask him about it, there is no other way, really.
Sorry if I'm not much help, I'm kind of occupied, and not in the best mood...
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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ask_a_dude
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September 18, 2012 5:37pm UTC

"So im use to date this guy and he was like crazy about me and i was crazy about him, but when we were together i wasnt shure what i wanted at the time so i broke up with him, hes dating someone new but he tells me all the time that his feelings for me are still there, but he only talks to me on facebook, his girlfriend now is really pretty, im happy he moved on, but why does he only talk to me on facebook and never talk to me in person when he sees me? I thought you might know since your a guy.."
His current girlfriend might not want him talking to you...

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ask_a_dude
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September 18, 2012 5:31pm UTC

"Would a guy prefer someone who is confident in them self or would they prefer to take on the responsibility of making them feel good about themselves?"
Confidence! WE LOVE CONFIDENCE, it's SO attractive when a girl is self confident, intelligence and confidence are the most attractive things ever!
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*Stay beautiful*

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September 18, 2012 5:27pm UTC

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September 18, 2012 5:22pm UTC

"how do you know if a guy means if he says he misses you too? does he mean it, or is he just being nice to you?"
When a guy says he misses you, believe me, nothing and no-one could miss you more than he does, when guys say they miss someone or something, they mean it, because we RARELY say it...
Sincerely,
~Christopher
*stay beautiful*

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ask_a_dude
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September 18, 2012 5:10pm UTC

"i would love to date but i really don't think he'll ever get the courage to ask me! what should i do? "
Ask him, yourself. Nothing is wrong with that.
He likes you, you like him, just ask. Most guys think it's adorable, if the girl asks.
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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September 18, 2012 5:04pm UTC

"why would a guy whos been taken for a few months let his best friend flirt with him when he has been told by her that she likes him and is flirting with him?"
Well, maybe he doesn't consider it flirting, or he could just be infatuated with his bestfriend.
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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September 18, 2012 4:58pm UTC

"How do I know when I talk to him, if he is just being shy or doesn't want to talk?"
Well, you can't really tell, only he will know...
Sorry :/
Sincerely,
~Christopher~

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ask_a_dude
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September 18, 2012 3:55pm UTC

"Sorry to bother you but I have a question. So I know it depends on the guy, but does a quiet guy usually go for a shy girl or outgoing girl?"
A quite guy will more than likely go for a quite girl, which is ironic, because MOST of the guys I know, are outgoing, and they love shy girls.
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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September 18, 2012 3:48pm UTC

"Simple question really, are cuts a major warning sIgn/no go for guys? Like, if a guy were to see a girl cuts herself/has cuts, would he be disgusted and find he weird? Would he be scared of her?"
Unless he's an absolute d**chebag, he won't care. Actually, most guys want to help girls with things like that. But yes, we will definately be worried!! Don't worry yourself though, he won't be disgusted, he'll want to help you get stronger and feel better.
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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ask_a_dude
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September 18, 2012 3:44pm UTC

"Can every guy change into something better? /are there exceptions to all things in a guys life?"
I'm not exactly sure what you mean, but I'll still try to answer it.
Well, most definately! There are TONS of expectations for guys! We have to be expected to make the first move, we have to smeel nice, look good, BE FIT*, smart, etc. ESPECIALLY guys that grow up with dads, they have to deal with dads expecting them to be sporty and what not. Luckily I was raised by just my amazing, wonderful mom.
Guys can change, just as easily as girls can. We are both human beings, just have different body parts.
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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September 18, 2012 3:37pm UTC

"But anyway, I explained to him that if I get attached to someone or start to like them or anything of the sort, they leave and i'm left broken hearted. what should I do if he sends me texts like that again? Like hearts and such?"
Trust me, you aren't bothering me!(:
Oh and thats good!! That you were honest to him about it. But just, trust that if he really loves you, that he'll be willing to wait for you to feel ready to love someone. And if anything happens like he says "Oh you've never even said you love me, why should I be with you?" or ANYTHING like that, just tell him, if he loves you, then he can wait for you to be ready.
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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ask_a_dude
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September 18, 2012 3:32pm UTC

"Should I ask him? Or just stay happy and ignore it? I'm confused..."
Definately ask him about it, there needs to be honesty and trust in ever relationship and friendship, so I'd say you should just go ask him.
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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ask_a_dude
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September 18, 2012 6:30am UTC

"do you think im ugly?"
Awe, you obviously do not own a mirror, because if you did, you would already know the answer.
You're gorgeous(:
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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September 18, 2012 6:27am UTC

"What does this mean?"
Awe, haha; it means he really likes you. If he "lit up like a Christmas tree," then he already fell for you.
So, just talk to him sometime, see where it goes. (:
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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ask_a_dude
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September 18, 2012 6:23am UTC

"How do I get him to understand that I really don't like him that way, only as a friend and to stop sending me messages like that without hurting his feelings?"
Most guys will stop if you just tell him to stop... Although, if that isn't working, he's kind of a creep...
Haha, and if he's being creepy like that, well let's just say, you have to break some hearts to win "the one." (vice versa)
So, you might have to be a bit forward about it, regardless of if you hurt his feelings, he'll just feel hurt for a little while, since there was nothing real that happened.
Sorry if it doesn't help.
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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ask_a_dude
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September 17, 2012 4:38pm UTC

"Would a guy ever fall for a girl who cuts and has two eating disorders?"
Of course! Why wouldn't they!? As a matter of fact, most guys want to help girls with those kinds of things, and it's what makes you, you. SO most definately!!!!!
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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ask_a_dude
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September 17, 2012 6:45am UTC

"How do I ask him for his number without saying "hey can I have your number?", or should I wait for him to ask for mine?...what should I do?"
Again, trust me, you aren't bothering me(:
Well, sorry to disappoint you, but you'll probably have to ask the question directly, meaning "Can I have your number," is probably the best question to ask. But, most guys don't take it as a very forward question, so just asking him for his number won't really be "throwing yourself out there," if that's what you had thought. Hahah, but when you ask him say something along the lines of "hah heyy, can I have your number:D?" It'll make him seem like you enjoy talking to him, but make you seem not too pushy or anything. So, I hope I helped.
Oh, and last thing, if you really don't want to ask, try to get it from someone else that has it, because waiting for him to ask you for yours, will take awhile.
Usually when guys ask for a girls number, the guy feels like he won't get it, which is why guys avoid asking, to avoid being rejected. Since, when a guy asks for a girls number, girls usually infer that the guy has feelings for them, and say no... Or at least this is what I figure.
Hahah intermediate phsycology classes have done me no good. Hah.
Well, I hope it helped.
Sincerely,
~Christopher~
*stay beautiful*

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