Being an inspiring, and generous person is having the ability to care about other people and realizing your attitude and actions can either negatively affect people or positively influence them
It is also being able to realize the world does not revolve around you, and while you may have problems
so do many other people
and many people actually feel the way you feel
you are not the only one
you may be different in terms of what kind of problem you have, but basically my point is everyone can hurt, everyone can feel alone and everyone can feel sad and like no one understands them
and if all you do is focus on yourself and you will not even try to help yourself and you just expect people to pity you, I do not see how you will ever look inspiring to people