So we become familiar with these little sayings like:
Nice guys finish last
Good girls fall for bad guys
Some of us start to believe them. Don't.
I'm a genuine nice guy. I'm respectful, caring, passionate, and protective. I've always been a sensitive dude.
For a while I started to think nice guys really do finish last. I thought I was destined to be forever alone.
It's not good for morale or self esteem. If you're a real man like me, don't change a thing.
One day, a women, hopefully the one you've been dying for, will notice you. You will grow old together and fulfill your dreams.
I've been through hell and back these past few months. I really want to start the new year off well before I join the navy.
You have to be ready to accept that maybe the girl just isn't for you and vice versa.
A simple change of mind is all you need. It's a transition. It won't happen instantly but you need to make it happen if you don't want to stay depressed.
Your feelings might not change. Maybe they're not supposed to. Just look at things from different perspectives and views. It helped me?
Best of luck,
Cosmo, Love Martyr
Anujsomany
*compassionate soul*
MohawkMojo
Kaleidoscope Eyed*