Guys, the most amazing thing happened to me yesterday, I was at my uncle's place and I got this phone call from my grand mom's( on my mom's side) brother. Anyway, he told me that his son and his wife had a daughter (my great uncle's first grand daughter) and they decided to name her after me! They had come to visit our side of the family and they had a five minute conversation with me, apparently I impressed them and they thought that I was a smart, pretty and fiercely independent girl and decided that of they had a daughter, they would name her after me.
This proves that we dont see ourselves the way other people do, we're way too critical. If I can do that, so can you, in fact, anyone can.