I always try to listen to other people more than I talk
about myself. I feel like talking about myself would be too
overwhelming to them and I want them to feel comfortable. That
way I end up knowing the person more than they know myself. I
just feel like I’d be kind of rude if I suddenly starting
talking about myself a lot. I also know that when I listen, I
listen with my whole self and that’s how sometimes I just
don’t know how to reply because I was so encompassed by what
the other person was saying. I’m afraid that they might think
I’m boring or that I don’t think in an independent way but
it’s only because they’re so interesting to me and I want to
get to know them more and make them feel special.
