BrokenbutHopeing · 1 decade ago
I'm going through alot of the same thing, it hurts but you just gotta keep trying <3
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chasingmydreams · 1 decade ago
i've even got his best friend (also my friend) feeling really bad for me. like he obviously made a bad decision if his on best friend feels bad and is just as clueless as i am.
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BrokenbutHopeing · 1 decade ago
yea, his best friend (used to be one of mine and is my ex) was confused and upset about it too
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chasingmydreams · 1 decade ago
like i see that you're 14. i'm 14 also. it really sucks to be going through this stuff at this age. like i'm really in love with this kid and he doesn't even seem the slightest bit upset.
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BrokenbutHopeing · 1 decade ago
yea it does, same here, i used to still like him when he first brokeup with me for one of my best friends and he acted like he didnt give a flip but it was and is a long, slow, and painful process of removing your feelings from him and telling yourself he's not gonna be there anymore, but i'm now to the point were im sorta just missing how i felt with him and the feeling from that more than missing him and i think now its just the feelings i miss most... but its still hard waking up in the morning without the feeling from him or anybody else
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chasingmydreams · 1 decade ago
when i woke up this morning i felt so empty inside. i couldn't believe it happened and i still can't/ the hardest part is that we're still going to be friends and it's never going to be the same again.
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BrokenbutHopeing · 1 decade ago
:'( i just noticed you posted this 4 hours ago.. the beginning is the worst, i remember feeling that^^^ way for like the first week and crying every night, and he told me he still wanted to be friends with me as well, but he hardly ever talks to me anymore so it more than likely won't ever be the same if he even still acts like your friend, i've decided just to give up on trying to be his friend because he doesn't show interest in even wanting to be my friend and the hard truth is thats he doesn't want to be and he has moved on and he just told you that he wanted to be friends still to make it "easier" for you
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chasingmydreams · 1 decade ago
well he told me he missed us being friends cause there was no fighting. and he also said he still wants to be there for me and that there's a possibility we'll get back together. we're still going to out 8th grade dance together and everything. we've been talking andn stuff trying to get back on the friend thing but i just can't do it because it's so hard. i don't want him out of my life though cause he helped me through hard times and everything,

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BrokenbutHopeing · 1 decade ago
that kinda reminds me of how my first boyfriend was, and he is my best guy friend even after we broke up (even thought we didnt talk much for about a year after it happened) but i think was because i didn't like him that way and he was and is more of a brother that we r still friends. you could probably still work out as friends with him but i wouldn't be really hopefully in the possibility of getting back together again because that really wouldn't be the same as before
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chasingmydreams · 1 decade ago
Yea I know. Before we were dating he was like my brother. We just clicked from te first time we really started talking. We're never going to have the same brother sister relationship as before an it really sucks cause that was a great friendship. Now he's going to be acting like it's all ok and I'm gonna have to smile through all the pain and act the best I can.
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BrokenbutHopeing · 1 decade ago
yea, just make sure you vent to somebody or on here or you'll explode cause you are having to hide your feelings
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chasingmydreams · 1 decade ago
Yea I know. I've been talking to his beat friend (also my friend) about it and he's help me a lot.
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BrokenbutHopeing · 1 decade ago
thats great, its always good to have somebody to talk to. *internet hug* well i gtg to school (otherwise known as death) i hope things turn out good for you, i'll always be here if you ever want to talk or vent
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chasingmydreams · 1 decade ago
Thank you:)
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BrokenbutHopeing · 1 decade ago
no problem :)
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Twelvesgirl96 · 1 decade ago
hey girl...a little advice for you i know it hard i been though it hun but you can do it if you put your mind to it... guys worth the stress i know its hard ... but you will find someone who will make you the happest person on world i am here if you need to talk
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chasingmydreams · 1 decade ago
the think is he did make me happy but he hurt me at the same time. it's all just really hard. i've stayed strong for a long time but idk how much longer i can put up with this bs.
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Twelvesgirl96 · 1 decade ago
girl its hard i am going thourg that a while and back and i have to act like i am the kids best friend now and after spending 10 mouths i had to get over him yes its hard but keep your head up high you cant let your self down girl i know thats what you feel like you should do but don't because your self dont want you too deep down ok i am here and always will be if you need to talk

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