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okay we'll i just found out something about my best friend that's huge and happened months ago but she never told me:( to make matters worse she also told my other best friend( we're like a trio) and one of the 19yr old guys she works with and he was hanging out with us on thursday and let something slip about it and i looked confused and she looked nervous( and guilty) and he was just like " wait you didn't tell one of your best friends! ... well this is akward"
and i'm just sitting there like you're telling me so if that's the way i found out then was ever going to tell me ? like seriously it's huge (but i can't  say) and she keeps it from me!
then she feels bad and is like
"i'm a sh*tty friend and i'm really sorry, what can i do to make it up to you" like seriously there really isn't anything and this deffinantly isn't the first time it's happened.
this is why i have trouble with letting my walls down. i have two close firends and that's pretty much it and now i don't know if i can count on 1 of them.

 
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okay we'll i just found out something about my best friend

4 faves · 6 comments · Mar 15, 2013 11:44pm

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dulldawn001 · 1 decade ago
this happens a lot because people sometimes don't want their close friends to think badly of them. i am not saying what she did is right, because my friends have done it to me in the past. And also another thing to think about was that maybe she was waiting for the perfect time to tell you, not when there were other people around. I don't know exactly what she did, but maybe she wanted to tell you... just not like that. I wouldn't NOT trust her, I would if i were you let her know how it made you feel when you relized that you weren't one of the first people she told. But really I don't think it was intentional. And my friends have donethis a couple of times, and I usually hear it from someone else, but then like a few days later my friends usually end up telling (at the right time).
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QuietPeopleHaveLoudMinds · 1 decade ago
she's done stuff likie this to me before and it happened at the beginning of july so i'm thinking that if she was going to tell me she would've told me before now and i'm still gonna trust her and she knows i would never judge her. she told me that our other friend meg and i were her best firends and it's always been that way and she told meg but not me, which happens alot and we talked about it already and she feels bad and is going to try and be better but who knows because like i said , not the first time she's left me out ( i usually find things out from meg)
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dulldawn001 · 1 decade ago
oh. i see. well in that case it is really a matter of opinon whether or not you choose to trust her.
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QuietPeopleHaveLoudMinds · 1 decade ago
it's not really a matter of not trusting her i just wish she'd tell me more instead of keeping me in the dark
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maydayparadebabe101 · 1 decade ago
im so sorry ;( that happened with me and my best friend i found out from my other friend (her ex bf) that she did rlly bad stuff and i think shes avoiding me now
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QuietPeopleHaveLoudMinds · 1 decade ago
yeah that's kinda what happened here too but she doesn't avoid me and i'm not judging her or anything i just don't like to be left out of the loop espescially with my best friends because nobody tells me ANYTHING, like my other friend walked up to me and was like " he asked me to prom!" and i was like " who ask you!?" and she gave me this look and was like " my boyfriend dale, we've been dating for two weeks" soo yeah
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