FluffyPikachu · 1 decade ago
Hang in there honey xxx
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cheezburger · 1 decade ago
Maybe phone NSPCC, they talk to you when you feel bad if your dad is violent, theyll tell you what to do.
Or maybe Barnados?
Barnardos helps children who are homeless, abused, have a bad past, parents with medical conditions etc.
They made loads of children every year happy, and help you with your problems.
Your dad loves you, please dont cut! xx if you need anyone you can come to me :D stay strong xxx
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squeaky930 · 1 decade ago
I had the same kind of situation also. When i was little my mom got addicted to drugs and left me and my sister alone, so everymorning before my sister went to school she would change my diaper and feed me. I know what it feels like but your little brother needs you. Noone might realize it but since your mom passed he is going to think of you as a mother figure. You just have to be there for him and show him that you love him and that no matter what you will never leave him or turn to anything and forget him. Please do not cut yourself he is looking up to you and cares very much for you alright girlie. Stay strong :)
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鲁汉 ♡* · 1 decade ago
darling, you have no idea how much I can relate to this. Same with my mom<3
Listen, I know its especially hard right now, but trust me it'll get better. This happened to my dad, but one day I sat down and talked to him because we were both so depressed. I felt small and alone, I had no idea what I should do, so we both talked about it for awhile. He stopped, for me, for mom. We both knew she wouldn't have liked it if she was here today. Okay, just act normal around your little brother, you know, do what you usually do with him. Choose one day that your dad seems okay, cook a nice meal for him, and just talk. Please stop cutting, it's so hard to stop I swear. It'll just take over your world, please. I know it feels better, but it won't in the future. Stay strong darling<3
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PrimroseEverdeen114214430125 · 1 decade ago
If your dad is not turning violent when he drinks, then you should come to him when he is sober and ask him to help care for you and your sibling(s). Also, cutting will never help and you have to make sure that you don't cut. Throw out the blades and try to start fresh. Let your dad know that you can't take care of yourself and your brother and if he keeps drinking, then you and your sibling(s) will not only have lost their mother, but also their father. If he doesn't step up to help out again, call a relative or close friend and ask them to help care for your brother and in the meantime, if your dad is dependant on drinks, then he needs to go to rehab. I hope things get better for you soon, and I think you are beautiful, strong, and that your mother would be proud of you.
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SazzX* · 1 decade ago
Please dont cut. They will get worse. When school starts again you'll be busy,with homework. Maybe have some hobbies... Maybe you could say how you feel to you Dad. He will understand. Please say if things get better or worse. Because were all here (:
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RINESA · 1 decade ago
agree wiv the othr comments nd yh u should take ur bro out nd sorry abt ur mum
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Gabzers123 · 1 decade ago
Please stay strong❤ you're such an inspirational, strong person and although it seems impossible or discouraging now, you can and will get through this! :Try to stay out of the house, maybe take your brother for a walk, to a movie, or to the park or something :) I'm here for you if you need anything :)
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sweetkiller9858 · 1 decade ago
dont cut it dsnt help... u need to stay strong <3 we're all here for u (:
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Sunny1703 · 1 decade ago
Don't cut, try to stop. Trust me. They look like just scratches now, but they'll get much, much deeper. Ypu have to start wearing long sleeves all the time to hide them, and you have to lie to your friends & family.
You need to try and stop; cutting is something that can easily take over your life.
(I'd know, I used to cut, but I'm trying to stop.)
Stay Strong < 3
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mexismoo · 1 decade ago
You have a little brother? Take him to a park or something. If you want him to stop drinking you could leave a how to stop drinking page open on your pc or something.
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bazinga · 1 decade ago
V
I agree. try to not hurt yourself okay? :)
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NoodleDirectioner · 1 decade ago
Thanks I will talk to my dad

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MaddyWaddy · 1 decade ago
Stay strong. Talk to your dad about it maybe...? When you have to watch your brother don't think about the bad things, play games with him. Do fun things.
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