Isthatnikki · 1 decade ago
Your right... its going to be hard but if its what you want... who cares what anyone else says. Its your decision. Just make sure its what you want before you let something like that happen... and if u need to talk beautiful im here (:
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sexxx* · 1 decade ago
@AllTheLights
I don't want to adopt. I want to have my own beautiful baby but I've decided to wait until I'm out of high school first.

@sleepless
No. I actually don't. I have unconditional love from my boyfriend, 2 friends, and mother. I truly want a baby. Please, don't tell me what I want because only I know that. Right now, I want a baby but I'm waiting like I've said in all of my reply comments so far.
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sleepless · 1 decade ago
you crave unconditional love not a baby

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AlltheLights · 1 decade ago
If you want a baby there's always adoption so you don't have to go through having your own
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sexxx* · 1 decade ago
(reaching up meaning she wants us to pick her up)
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sexxx* · 1 decade ago
@jonel_nikki
I've already decided to wait. I know I'm too young. And you're not even 14 yet. You shouldn't be thinking about babies. At least wait a year to start thinking about it like me(; haha

@anyone who wants to listen or read
Part of what made me want a baby is my boyfriend. At one point he said he wants to be a father. He told me about how he came home and his baby sister (who is 1 and a half) was waiting by the door for him and was soooo excited when he came home. She stumbled up to him (she can't walk too well yet) and reached her arms up to him with the cutest smile on her face. She's also part of the reason I want a baby. She's always reaching up to me and wanting to play when I'm over his house. It just made me want a baby of my own to do that with. But I know I'm not old enough and that we need to wait. We plan on having kids some day but not yet(:
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jonel_nikki · 1 decade ago
Gosh :) I'm feeling exactly the same! I want one so bad, just like you do but I just do! I'm almost 14 now and my best friend thinks it's crazy but she supports my decisions and understands why but my advice is; find someone close to talk to, I've told my mom also and they could give you some advice and support cause darlin, this'll fly over soon!
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sexxx* · 1 decade ago
@MissJaime_xx
I don't like traveling and if I can have either my mom, cousin, aunt, or the father watch the baby if I don't bring it with me

@MissOpportunist
Yes, it would have 2 parents that love it and love each other. I know I could help provide for it. The father would help and my mom would pay for part. I could get a job. I may still be considered a child but my maturity is anything but childish. I know I'm not old enough yet though. And the father (well, who I hope would be the father and who is also my boyfriend) is going to be over consensual age soon so it would make it illegal anyways. I'm going to wait.
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MissOpportunist · 1 decade ago
Hey, my names Amy ;) you seem like you really know what you want right now - and that's good! Most people your age really really don't, but before you bring a child into the world are you sure it will have 2 parents who love it, who love each other? Are you sure you'll be able to provide for it at this age and without any idea what you want to do with your life or how you want to earn and finally are you sure you can do this? A child is an amazing thing, yeah, I'm not denying that but your only a child yourself, think of all the things you could do, places you could go, things you could see before you become a mother - maybe you want to travel? It might seem weird but have you even considered all your options? Maybe you could wait until the legal age, I mean - your still in school right - even if you went to get inceminated that would be illegal too - I'm not here to judge you, I'm here to listen, maybe to help or give you some advice - this is Witty! Its what we do - we look out for each other so if you ever need to talk I'm here, alright ;) xoxox
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MissJaime_xx · 1 decade ago
you wouldnt be able to travel and go out with you friends
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sexxx* · 1 decade ago
@MissJaime_xx
There isn't really anything I want to do. I know I need to wait a few years and I will. It's just that feeling that's making me feel so weird...

@PThistle78
I feel like you're also saying I wouldn't be able to handle the responsibility. I know I would be able to and I know I would be a perfect mother but I know I need to wait until I'm at least out of high school.
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PThistle78 · 1 decade ago
Look, if you want a baby that bad, then you will want what's best for it. So just wait a few year until A- you are legally allowed to have a baby, and B- you are old enough to truly consider the possibility.
Please put the baby first.
You know what's right.
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MissJaime_xx · 1 decade ago
if you do want one why dont you wait a few years because if you have a baby now, you wont be able to do some of the stuff you could do without one :) here if you need too talk :)
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sexxx* · 1 decade ago
To be surrounded by my own family. A wonderful guy and our beautiful baby. I don't know why but it's just something I feel that I need right now...
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RandomGaga · 1 decade ago
Your dream might be to be surrounded by family :) xx And dont worry, i'll be here, if you want any1 to talk to.xx
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