SheDreamer · 1 decade ago
if it's a choice between a boyfriend a friend, chose the friend. you have no guarantees the boy will still be there in a month, but a real frienship with a girl can last for years. so, comfort your friend. then tell her how you feel about her ex and ask her what she wants you to do. this way, you can be honest with her without hurting her feelings and still be respectful of their (former) relationship.
hope this helps!
-SheDreamer
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jcpeace · 1 decade ago
my recommendation? Get closer to him but keep it in the friendlier zone until shes over him completely. Once you're sure of that tell her how you feel about him and explain how you really love her as a friend and you DONT want this to effect your friendship. Then still get closer to him in a not deperate but still flirty way. (: But while she's getting over him, let her get it all out to you. I have a friend who's still getting over a guy, and honestly she will vent. A LOT. For now just be very supportive of her moving on and go hot guy hunting with her and try as little as possible to mention him to her until shes completely moved on and comofrtable without him. HOPE I HELPED!!!! (:
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mmh323 · 1 decade ago
maybe wait til she is generally over him, during that time get to know him a bit. once you know your friend is fully over him, go for it. make somewhat-not-desperate-looking suttle hints ONCE your friend is over him. Help your friend get over him. dont talk about him, go out looking for cute guys, etc.. :)
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littleleftofthemiddle · 1 decade ago
try to not make a move on your part. if anything, try to back off. if he asks you out, then you can worry more about it. confront your best friend about it if he asks you out. see what she thinks. then, you can make your decision. good luck!
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xxfootballloverxx · 1 decade ago
i think yoou should move on , it takes alot . trust me , i had the saame problem . stay strong <3
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GummiiPopzGurrl · 1 decade ago
Does ur frnd hate him?? If she is a true frnd i dnt think she wud mind. But i understand wat yhu mean. I mean he is yhur bff's ex. But you like him. Its a secret. OMG!!! This is hard.. You should get to know him. Like more. Then probably he can like you back. He might ask you out then. And..Then its your decision. Yes or No. I am not sure about ur bff.......
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