I don't know what to do anymore...
Today my girlfriend told me to stop. She didn't specify what, so naturally i asked what it was that I needed to stop, to which she replied to sstop talking to her...this made me feel horrible...to most people they would just think "oh she just was angry and needs space" well that isn't her...Usually Taylor (her name) tells me to keep talking to her, make her feel better. This probably wouldn't scare most people, but for me it did because, before i met her, i dated another girl for a really long time. This other girl and I went on and off for around 7 months, and everytime that she would break up with me that is how she would start, especially the last time. Now I understand breaking up with the old girlfriend, Nicole, was a good thing, but i don't think thats the case with Taylor. As i've said, this is the first time she has ever done this, but there has been other things as well. She becomes depressed at times, where she feels empty. To this I have know idea what to do or say...could somebody tell me what I need to do..? I really don't want to loose this girl, I've fallen for her hard...Anyways, she is convinced that people are sick of her, and i don't know how to prove to her that people aren't, that people just make bad decisions or trust a guy over you because they like the guy. I don't know...this is just really hard for a guy like me... I just want to show her that she is beautiful...that she is amazing...that she is perfect for me...i want to help but i don't know how....well, thank you for reading all of this if you have, I appreciate it...

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I don't know what to do anymore... Today my girlfriend told

9 faves · 7 comments · Apr 9, 2012 3:08pm

danceismylife23 · 1 decade ago
Hey thomas, its Carly..
She told me to look at this yesterday, so I did....

When she say that she doesn't want you to talk to her, I think that she wants you to comfort her. I think she needs you to just hold her, and tell her that you need her. I think she wants to feel like she's wanted...idk.. im just trying to help because im concerned for her. She feels like no one cares, and ofcouse people care(: and if your reading this Taylor, you are seriouslyyy amazing. I know you've had a bad couple days, but "its just a bad day, not a bad life"

PS- Thomas, im sooo gonna get you back for throwing Littlest Pet Shops at me..
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lovehimmorethanwords · 1 decade ago
Call her out on it. Let her know that you care about her a lot & you try your best to support her, but now you're confused because she doesn't want you to talk to her.
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tcobb1442 · 1 decade ago
okay I will!

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kendiee2 · 1 decade ago
Just try to talk to her and make sure she knows you love her.
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momentoftruth1 · 1 decade ago
You need to talk to her, tell her what you told us wittians. Show her exactly how much you care. I hope she understands and talks to you again ^.^
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tcobb1442 · 1 decade ago
I try! Hahaha i try like you woldn't believe! i bend the rules for her, i melt to her every whim!! somehow she still doesnt know what i wouldn't do for her...i just can't do everything, and it seems that the things i can't do define me more than the things i have done...
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emogirly1996 · 1 decade ago
Make her feel loved, but don't just tell her that, show her. Show her that she means something to you, to the world. (:
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