foreverfascinatedxx · 1 decade ago
Tell her that the boy isn't worth it. tell her that it's one more broken heart until she finds her prince charming. If he really cared about her, he would put her through this. If he really cared about her he wouldn't let her hurt herself like this. Tell her that she can find someone better. Hug her and tell her everything will be alright. Burning herself is only going to make it worse..it's not helping anything it might feel like it is but it's only causing more trouble..
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skinnyminikitty · 1 decade ago
tell her this:
"This will also most likely not be the last time you'll get hurt by someone. Really think about the saying "everything happens for a reason" I know It's cliche, but It's true. Trust me. If he hurt you, he's not worth it. Just let him go... If he comes back later in life or even in a few days, months... whenever you may not even want him. Just be strong. There was a point in your life when he wasn't there and you stood on your own two feet. You may feel like you need him, but you don't. You'll soon realize you don't miss "him" you were just "used" to him being around. Now I'm not saying you don't care about him, because trust me I had my heart broken before.. but you'll get through it. Go out, have fun. Keep yourself busy. You'll be fine in no time. Just take it easy, and don't force the fact of forgetting him, get over him in time. Time heals all in fact!The hardest part after a break up is the first couple of weeks. It's easy to say, but the best way to forget about someone is to not make a big deal about it when you do think about them. When you think about him or get sad, say: ok, I thought about him and it made me sad. Then move on. Do something that requires you to focus, like art or cleaning or homework. With time, it will get easier and easier.give yourself about 3 days to a week. treat yourself carefully. you may have some "unfinished business" with him. when i had a broken heart i kept crying without knowing why, then i had a dream that i stuck my middle finger up at him, so i sent him a message telling him what i thought of him. i never cried again after that.
so try and think about maybe something you haven't finished. you can get over it :) but everyone is different about it.no boy is worth ur tears and the one who is won't make you cry.....trust me if he can't see what he's missing out on then that's his problem and he doesn't deserve to be in ur future....i went through a horrible break up when school started and i'm still struggling with it even though i dated another guy right after...don't cry over him cuz hes not worth it
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mrscubcat123 · 1 decade ago
just tell her to stop. If she doesn't, give her reasons to live. The breakup shouldn't take her entire life. There is such thing as a future. And frankly, if the person is that much of douche, she shouldn't care.
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rarelove · 1 decade ago
tell her that everything will be alright. there will be more guys. that she is beautiful. tell her that it doesnt matter what someone did to her that it must have happened for a reason and she cant hurt herself for it. tell her you love her
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